Monday, December 24, 2007
Friday, December 14, 2007
Retro night in da 'hood
Tuesday night was like stepping back in time. It was a lot of fun.
A couple of weeks ago I set my mind to expanding my circle of friends and activities. My friends are great and we always have a fun time but I not going to meet 'Mr. Right' hanging out in my back yard drinking a Sunday afternoon away. I found myself settling into a very comfortable rut, that I need to get out of soon.
So after CRHB not calling one night, the stress of the holidays getting to me and a few other things I came to a cross-roads of sort...either I needed to make a change or I was going over the edge. That night I signed up for several meetup groups and vowed to become more involved in the neighborhood.
So on Tuesday night I attended my first EACA pot luck dinner. The fact I knew CRHB was going to be there encouraged my attendance even more. I was a little late, having to deal with the painters at the house, I listened to the police report, voted on some zoning requests and blushed when CRHB saw me and winked. Afterwards dinner was served. We ate together, talked to the neighbors, I bumped into an old hasher...I was then headed across the street to meet Kay (aka Tasty Pie) for a few drinks with her and her mommy friends. CRHB said he would pop over later, he had a few things to do before then. I hung out with the ladies...everyone seemed to know everyone...CRHB stopped by the table, of course knew one the the girls (ATank). He had to go talk to someone else so then we all gossiped about our new 'relationship', they all approved.
It just seemed very small town...in a good way. The community out and about, people going from table to table, checking in on everyone. Very retro in a new urbanism kind of way. It may seem a little silly but I think it is wonderful.
A couple of weeks ago I set my mind to expanding my circle of friends and activities. My friends are great and we always have a fun time but I not going to meet 'Mr. Right' hanging out in my back yard drinking a Sunday afternoon away. I found myself settling into a very comfortable rut, that I need to get out of soon.
So after CRHB not calling one night, the stress of the holidays getting to me and a few other things I came to a cross-roads of sort...either I needed to make a change or I was going over the edge. That night I signed up for several meetup groups and vowed to become more involved in the neighborhood.
So on Tuesday night I attended my first EACA pot luck dinner. The fact I knew CRHB was going to be there encouraged my attendance even more. I was a little late, having to deal with the painters at the house, I listened to the police report, voted on some zoning requests and blushed when CRHB saw me and winked. Afterwards dinner was served. We ate together, talked to the neighbors, I bumped into an old hasher...I was then headed across the street to meet Kay (aka Tasty Pie) for a few drinks with her and her mommy friends. CRHB said he would pop over later, he had a few things to do before then. I hung out with the ladies...everyone seemed to know everyone...CRHB stopped by the table, of course knew one the the girls (ATank). He had to go talk to someone else so then we all gossiped about our new 'relationship', they all approved.
It just seemed very small town...in a good way. The community out and about, people going from table to table, checking in on everyone. Very retro in a new urbanism kind of way. It may seem a little silly but I think it is wonderful.
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Bloggus Interuptus
I found out yesterday that I can no longer blog from work? More specifically I can not access my account from work. What do they expect me to do with my time? Do the job I'm paid for? GEEZ...
Have no fear, I will write my blog today and post it this evening...yes that's right I'm sticking it to the man...he can't stop me!
Have no fear, I will write my blog today and post it this evening...yes that's right I'm sticking it to the man...he can't stop me!
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Christmas Thoughts
Here are a few of my thoughts on Christmas, good, bad and ugly.
I've always wanted to have a wonderful Christmas but it has just never happened. I've spent the majority of them alone, as it looks like I will again this year. That being said if you are going to celebrate for fuck sakes do it right.
My new friend LOVES the holidays, he knows I run and bike in the 'hood a lot and he has asked me to keep an eye out for any homes decorated for the holidays that stand out. Normally I don't pay much attention but for him...okay.
What has happened over the past few years? The scenes are dreadful, no style, no elegance...it seems that people toss out a few random inflatable figures and call it a day. Like this -
Two Tiggers, two Santas, a Grinch and random white animals?? What the hell??
It almost makes me want to decorate just show how it SHOULD be done.
Pub Crawling
Here is one tradition I can get into. This year will be my 4th year participating and my 1st year as a hare for the AH4 Holiday Pub Crawl. My friends and I will be wandering the streets of East Atlanta Village drinking our holiday cheer. I even heard a sexy, Mrs. Claus will be making an appearance...I wonder if Jangles will show up also...I heard they have a thing going. Shhh don't tell Mr. Claus.
Christmas Stories
A Christmas Story was one of my father's favorite movies. I'm sure he related well to the story of a boy growing up in small town Indiana in the 40s. I just found it strange because that was pretty much the only part of Christmas my father enjoyed. He mood took a deep, downward spiral when the holidays approached. This surely was due to the fact that Dec 24th was my parents wedding anniversary. After my mother's death, Christmas was never, ever the same. It was pretty much ignored by my father and any attempts on my part to keep the spirit alive was met with harsh retribution. Most years we hoped for the Christmas mornings my father, to drunk from the night before, didn't make it home. My sister and I could celebrate in secret, I always made sure she had something in her stocking on Christmas morning. During the not so bad years I might get a check/cash and maybe (if he remembered) a trip to a relative's home for some Christmas dinner.
After years of trying I am just too tired to try anymore.
A Good Christmas?
Christmas day last year was about as good as I has ever been for me. I was very, very upset at Darren that day. He was leaving that day to spend the holidays with friends and not me like he should. I was invited over to my friend Betsy's house for her world famous Tweety Bird Waffles and some perseco. It was a great day, I can't really say it was a great Christmas...there was little that day that reminded me of the holidays, but I felt very lucky that at least I wasn't alone.
I've always wanted to have a wonderful Christmas but it has just never happened. I've spent the majority of them alone, as it looks like I will again this year. That being said if you are going to celebrate for fuck sakes do it right.
My new friend LOVES the holidays, he knows I run and bike in the 'hood a lot and he has asked me to keep an eye out for any homes decorated for the holidays that stand out. Normally I don't pay much attention but for him...okay.
What has happened over the past few years? The scenes are dreadful, no style, no elegance...it seems that people toss out a few random inflatable figures and call it a day. Like this -
Two Tiggers, two Santas, a Grinch and random white animals?? What the hell??
It almost makes me want to decorate just show how it SHOULD be done.
Pub Crawling
Here is one tradition I can get into. This year will be my 4th year participating and my 1st year as a hare for the AH4 Holiday Pub Crawl. My friends and I will be wandering the streets of East Atlanta Village drinking our holiday cheer. I even heard a sexy, Mrs. Claus will be making an appearance...I wonder if Jangles will show up also...I heard they have a thing going. Shhh don't tell Mr. Claus.
Christmas Stories
A Christmas Story was one of my father's favorite movies. I'm sure he related well to the story of a boy growing up in small town Indiana in the 40s. I just found it strange because that was pretty much the only part of Christmas my father enjoyed. He mood took a deep, downward spiral when the holidays approached. This surely was due to the fact that Dec 24th was my parents wedding anniversary. After my mother's death, Christmas was never, ever the same. It was pretty much ignored by my father and any attempts on my part to keep the spirit alive was met with harsh retribution. Most years we hoped for the Christmas mornings my father, to drunk from the night before, didn't make it home. My sister and I could celebrate in secret, I always made sure she had something in her stocking on Christmas morning. During the not so bad years I might get a check/cash and maybe (if he remembered) a trip to a relative's home for some Christmas dinner.
After years of trying I am just too tired to try anymore.
A Good Christmas?
Christmas day last year was about as good as I has ever been for me. I was very, very upset at Darren that day. He was leaving that day to spend the holidays with friends and not me like he should. I was invited over to my friend Betsy's house for her world famous Tweety Bird Waffles and some perseco. It was a great day, I can't really say it was a great Christmas...there was little that day that reminded me of the holidays, but I felt very lucky that at least I wasn't alone.
Monday, December 10, 2007
I will never look at an elf the same way again
This was probably the most laid back weekend I've had in a long time. It was nice to not really have to be somewhere all the time.
After a short trip to Target I stayed in on Friday night and caught up on some sleep. I had spend the past two evenings with CRHB and he doesn't seem to mind staying up late. That's what I get for dating a younger man.
Saturday was a long day, I knew it would be. I got up early, cleaned the house a bit before heading OTP for a mt. bike ride with a new group of people. Realizing I had a little extra time I ran up to the Village to check out how things were going at Santa's Village (aka Joe's). I saw Scott, he was super busy so I grabbed a coffee, said hello to everyone and took off for Dausett.
It was such a beautiful day...temps in the 70s, the sun was out. Instead of meeting everyone in Cobb County I drove to Jackson alone. There was a little confusion when I arrived, trying to determine which group was mine. After some brief introductions we were off. It was a great ride, I did 11 miles and kept up with the front of the pack...which I was told was impressive since I only have flat peddles and not clips...they are coming soon.
I wasn't able to stick around to eat lunch with the crew since I had to head back to town to attend our team trivia finals. Long story short, the bar was ill prepared for such a crowd and I had to play pretty much sober. We didn't win but tried to have a good time.
Then it was back to EAV to catch the tail end of the 2nd annual progressive dinner party. Since the end was at CRHB's house I figured I would make an appearance...I wasn't the only one. Sometime later in the evening, Jangels the alcoholic elf arrived with shots in hand...it turned into a long night.
Yes, I am a lucky girl, I can now check off 'make out with an elf' on life's to do list.
After a short trip to Target I stayed in on Friday night and caught up on some sleep. I had spend the past two evenings with CRHB and he doesn't seem to mind staying up late. That's what I get for dating a younger man.
Saturday was a long day, I knew it would be. I got up early, cleaned the house a bit before heading OTP for a mt. bike ride with a new group of people. Realizing I had a little extra time I ran up to the Village to check out how things were going at Santa's Village (aka Joe's). I saw Scott, he was super busy so I grabbed a coffee, said hello to everyone and took off for Dausett.
It was such a beautiful day...temps in the 70s, the sun was out. Instead of meeting everyone in Cobb County I drove to Jackson alone. There was a little confusion when I arrived, trying to determine which group was mine. After some brief introductions we were off. It was a great ride, I did 11 miles and kept up with the front of the pack...which I was told was impressive since I only have flat peddles and not clips...they are coming soon.
I wasn't able to stick around to eat lunch with the crew since I had to head back to town to attend our team trivia finals. Long story short, the bar was ill prepared for such a crowd and I had to play pretty much sober. We didn't win but tried to have a good time.
Then it was back to EAV to catch the tail end of the 2nd annual progressive dinner party. Since the end was at CRHB's house I figured I would make an appearance...I wasn't the only one. Sometime later in the evening, Jangels the alcoholic elf arrived with shots in hand...it turned into a long night.
Yes, I am a lucky girl, I can now check off 'make out with an elf' on life's to do list.
Tuesday, December 4, 2007
Practice makes Perfect
Last night WLB, PWD and I, MSI...all headed out for a night of business...we had to scout out trail for the 11th East Atlanta Hash House Harries Holiday Pub Crawl.
In spite of all the 'work' we had to do it was a great night out with the boys...we hit all our local faves. We met up at the Gravity Pub first. Gravity has fallen on hard times recently...it use to be one of the few places to hang out in EAV and was always a hash favorite. With the addition of so many new and nicer pubs/bars and having to close the downstairs, I'm sure they've seen a drop in business. Graveyard was next...we split a pitcher of Sam Adams, chatted with the bartender, who did know that WLB's last name means 'little nun' (I didn't know that). Next we headed to Grant Central to grab a bite to eat, I grabbed an eggplant sandwich (a little bland) and received a call from CRHB, we set up a 3rd date, yeah!!! Next to Mary's, one of my favorite spots in the Village I never go to...the three of walked in and increased the crowd by 300%. We told the bartender what we were up to and the one other patron said "you can't be hashers, you look too clean" we just about lost it. Apparently, this gentleman has run into our ilk before...he even made the added comment that I was far too pretty to be a hasher...the gays...they love me.
Last stop was the Flat Iron, where images of Paulie, playing Guitar Hero, in front of the big screen, alone in his basement will stay with me forever.
I'm not sure if we really accomplished anything but have a great night out with some good friends...but hey that is what the Pub Crawl is all about.
I hope to see everyone on Dec 15th for the real deal.
on-on
In spite of all the 'work' we had to do it was a great night out with the boys...we hit all our local faves. We met up at the Gravity Pub first. Gravity has fallen on hard times recently...it use to be one of the few places to hang out in EAV and was always a hash favorite. With the addition of so many new and nicer pubs/bars and having to close the downstairs, I'm sure they've seen a drop in business. Graveyard was next...we split a pitcher of Sam Adams, chatted with the bartender, who did know that WLB's last name means 'little nun' (I didn't know that). Next we headed to Grant Central to grab a bite to eat, I grabbed an eggplant sandwich (a little bland) and received a call from CRHB, we set up a 3rd date, yeah!!! Next to Mary's, one of my favorite spots in the Village I never go to...the three of walked in and increased the crowd by 300%. We told the bartender what we were up to and the one other patron said "you can't be hashers, you look too clean" we just about lost it. Apparently, this gentleman has run into our ilk before...he even made the added comment that I was far too pretty to be a hasher...the gays...they love me.
Last stop was the Flat Iron, where images of Paulie, playing Guitar Hero, in front of the big screen, alone in his basement will stay with me forever.
I'm not sure if we really accomplished anything but have a great night out with some good friends...but hey that is what the Pub Crawl is all about.
I hope to see everyone on Dec 15th for the real deal.
on-on
Monday, December 3, 2007
The Beer-muda Triangle Claims Another Victim
Yes it is true...not only did the Beer-muda Triangle lose another Sunday afternoon, it gained a new victim. Just Scott (aka the cute red headed boy) was sucked into an afternoon of beer drinking and bacon eating by yours truly.
We had a great crowd for the first Sunday Run of December. 12 runners and walker appeared on my doorstep around 9 am...in the normal hash tradition we took off around 9:17...
I over estimated my abilities as I tried to keep up with the big boys (Boner, HighDicker BigBore and PE) after about 2 miles I slipped back and eventually WLB and Boner Rooter caught up and I ran the rest of the way with them. As we passed the northwestern most corner of the BT we noticed a warning sign and a cooler of beer left by the resident. I wish we had a picture.
Shorty after our arrival back at Casa de la Martha Tasty Pie, Serious Sam and Quincy arrived after a long walk from Braeburn Circle.
It was a beautiful day, great friends helped to put a serious dent in the beer and bacon (5.5 pounds) surplus I had at the house.
After much debate I decided to give Scott a call and invite him over to hang out with us also. This was only our second 'date' and I was a little nervous...but he was going to find out anyway and sooner is better than later.
The evening went well...and there is a plan to see him again.
We had a great crowd for the first Sunday Run of December. 12 runners and walker appeared on my doorstep around 9 am...in the normal hash tradition we took off around 9:17...
I over estimated my abilities as I tried to keep up with the big boys (Boner, HighDicker BigBore and PE) after about 2 miles I slipped back and eventually WLB and Boner Rooter caught up and I ran the rest of the way with them. As we passed the northwestern most corner of the BT we noticed a warning sign and a cooler of beer left by the resident. I wish we had a picture.
Shorty after our arrival back at Casa de la Martha Tasty Pie, Serious Sam and Quincy arrived after a long walk from Braeburn Circle.
It was a beautiful day, great friends helped to put a serious dent in the beer and bacon (5.5 pounds) surplus I had at the house.
After much debate I decided to give Scott a call and invite him over to hang out with us also. This was only our second 'date' and I was a little nervous...but he was going to find out anyway and sooner is better than later.
The evening went well...and there is a plan to see him again.
Thursday, November 29, 2007
I'm Done
I don't understand...I really don't. A boy says he will call you and doesn't...so you question him and he basically says he's been too busy. Okay fine, then say that, quite lying to me.
What the hell is wrong with them? They all just seem it is okay to lie, use and take me for granted...when did I get 'use me' tattooed across my forehead? What did I ever do to deserve to be treated like this?
What the hell is wrong with them? They all just seem it is okay to lie, use and take me for granted...when did I get 'use me' tattooed across my forehead? What did I ever do to deserve to be treated like this?
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Monday, November 26, 2007
Five Days Off Work and I'm Exhusted!!
Yes, 5 whole days off work. I haven't had that much time off since I started this job 2 years ago. It was great but coming into the office today was not easy.
No Donkey Punch for Me
For a multitude of reasons I did not attend trivia last week. I heard they ended up splitting into two teams and took first and second place...great job gang.
Instead of playing trivia I was running around getting ready for Thursday/Turkey Day. In my mad rush I forgot to bring my bike inside. When I awoke on Wednesday, she was gone!
Extra Time Off
Between being a bit pissed at myself and the asshat that stole my bike and feeling like I was running behind schedule I just took the day off on Wednesday.
I got a lot done, mostly mundane tasks such has shopping and cleaning house. I skipped George's and headed to bed early. I knew Thursday was going to be a long day and I was right.
Turkey Day
After a relatively decent nights sleep, I woke up at 5:30 am to head to Turner Field to meet friends and run my first half marathon.
While driving from Turner Field (the end) to Chamblee Marta Station (the start) I said to myself, "this is a long way to drive...and now I going to run it"...if I had been by myself I might have turned back.
We found a parking place and as I got out of the truck I noticed a flash of lighting, it was going to be an interesting run. We all decided on a pit stop before the race, that was the last I saw of my companions until around mile 6.
What can I say I ran for 13.1 miles, mostly in the rain...I never thought this was something I would ever do. I finished in 2:05 and I was very happy it was done. It was great to get to the end and see all my friends waiting for me (okay not just me, waiting for everyone). I guess I'll see you all at ING in the spring.
Okay I've looked better but I had just ran 13.1 miles and I was well on my way to a great buzz.
No Donkey Punch for Me
For a multitude of reasons I did not attend trivia last week. I heard they ended up splitting into two teams and took first and second place...great job gang.
Instead of playing trivia I was running around getting ready for Thursday/Turkey Day. In my mad rush I forgot to bring my bike inside. When I awoke on Wednesday, she was gone!
Extra Time Off
Between being a bit pissed at myself and the asshat that stole my bike and feeling like I was running behind schedule I just took the day off on Wednesday.
I got a lot done, mostly mundane tasks such has shopping and cleaning house. I skipped George's and headed to bed early. I knew Thursday was going to be a long day and I was right.
Turkey Day
After a relatively decent nights sleep, I woke up at 5:30 am to head to Turner Field to meet friends and run my first half marathon.
While driving from Turner Field (the end) to Chamblee Marta Station (the start) I said to myself, "this is a long way to drive...and now I going to run it"...if I had been by myself I might have turned back.
We found a parking place and as I got out of the truck I noticed a flash of lighting, it was going to be an interesting run. We all decided on a pit stop before the race, that was the last I saw of my companions until around mile 6.
What can I say I ran for 13.1 miles, mostly in the rain...I never thought this was something I would ever do. I finished in 2:05 and I was very happy it was done. It was great to get to the end and see all my friends waiting for me (okay not just me, waiting for everyone). I guess I'll see you all at ING in the spring.
Okay I've looked better but I had just ran 13.1 miles and I was well on my way to a great buzz.
I hung around waiting for the Marathon runners to arrive...I finally left just before noon to be home it time for Stacy to get a good seat for the Packers game.
The evening was really nice, lots of friends and even a few people I didn't know well. In total I think about 22 people, 1 baby and a bird came through my house that day. Thanks Everyone!
Oh the Colts won too...YEAH!!!
For Me Friday was a Day of Rest
Friday was a slow day, I made a half hearted attempt to put my house back in order and I went for a hike along the 'hooch with a new boy. He was nice, seemed pretty into me...but something is just a little off? I can't explain it, I'm not giving up, I'll just keep my eyes open.
I bailed on the hockey game that my friend Stacy gave me tickets to...Sorry Stacy. I got home from my hike and crashed hard, did I mention I was going non-stop from 5:30 am to midnight on Thursday? My exhaustion and lack of anyone to go with made a last minute rally unlikely. I just stayed on the couch and got a little more rest.
Saturday - when things started to get interesting
Saturday deserves its own entry!Sunday - Hypothermia Hash
I really wanted to take the new bike (aka Gretel) out for a spin, Urban Wheelhopper seemed as good as option as any. The wind, rain and cold kept me from getting much of a work out...4 miles and I was done...I didn't warm up again until late Sunday night. I was still glad I got out.
Monday, November 19, 2007
Weight Loss Update
I've raised my weight loss goal to 25 pounds this is up from the original 15 I was hoping to lose.
I REALLY need to go shoping for new pants...most of them are just about to fall off of me. I'm starting to look like an 'urban youth' with my pants done around my hips.
I REALLY need to go shoping for new pants...most of them are just about to fall off of me. I'm starting to look like an 'urban youth' with my pants done around my hips.
What I've been up to...
Sorry it has been so long since I have written a proper blog...I will try to catch you all up with the last week or so.
Donkey Punch is No More
Only the beer has disappeared not the trivia team.
Donkey Punch the trivia team as secured a place in the trivia finals to be played in December. So we are now playing under a different name so we can try to get a second team into the finals also. Teams are limited to six people and we have a group of 8 or so that show up regularly and others who come now and then. We are going to try to make sure that everyone that can and wants to play will.
Tuesday night "Let's Be Frank" came in second place...we would have won if we had only listened to our team's namesake a couple of times
Lesson learned - don't doubt Frank when it comes to baseball or political parties.
Date Night
Yes, the shocking news of the week was not that I had a date...but that I had 2 dates.
Date #1 is a guy I met on Match, come to find out we are also both members of the same community forum. So while we hadn't met, we came close several times. At the EABF in May we were working only 2 tables apart.
We had spoken on the phone several times and decided to meet last Wednesday. He was going to call me that evening to set the time and place...this is where things got a little rough.
Long story short I realized it was 8 o'clock and I hadn't heard from him. I was a little miffed...but I also knew that he had been under the gun at work and was leaving town in just a couple of day so he may have been running late or just a little scattered. I sent him a text (too chicken to call) asking him what was up? He called immediately, apologized and asked if I would still like to meet up. Sure why not. So we arranged to meet at the newly reopened Gravity Pub. He was very cute, funny, easy to talk to...and I have to say we would look good together (both short red-heads). He said he had a good time and was looking forward to doing it again (per the email the next day). He is away this week, visiting his family for the holidays. I hope to hear from him when he returns.
Date #2 is someone I've known for a while. I'm not sure about this one but he had the guts to ask me out so I figure I would give him a chance. I went to his place last night where he cooked me dinner...I haven't had a man cook for me in a VERY LONG TIME. It was a nice evening and he got me good and drunk...we will see what happens.
Count Down to T-Day
So I'm host Thanksgiving dinner for 20 (at last count) of my friends (and others) this week. That is after I run my first half-marathon. What was I thinking?
I made it to the Farmer's Market yesterday to get the turkey and fixings for my meal. What a mess!! The place was packed with other, just like myself, getting ready for the big day.
Besides shopping and getting ready to run I've also been trying to fix up the house a little. I got the kitchen painted over the weekend, new light fixtures installed in the kitchen and some new hardware for many of the interior doors. I don't think I will have time to do much else.
As many of you know I participated in an activity this weekend that took up much of my time. I will post a recap in a separate entry.
Donkey Punch is No More
Only the beer has disappeared not the trivia team.
Donkey Punch the trivia team as secured a place in the trivia finals to be played in December. So we are now playing under a different name so we can try to get a second team into the finals also. Teams are limited to six people and we have a group of 8 or so that show up regularly and others who come now and then. We are going to try to make sure that everyone that can and wants to play will.
Tuesday night "Let's Be Frank" came in second place...we would have won if we had only listened to our team's namesake a couple of times
Lesson learned - don't doubt Frank when it comes to baseball or political parties.
Date Night
Yes, the shocking news of the week was not that I had a date...but that I had 2 dates.
Date #1 is a guy I met on Match, come to find out we are also both members of the same community forum. So while we hadn't met, we came close several times. At the EABF in May we were working only 2 tables apart.
We had spoken on the phone several times and decided to meet last Wednesday. He was going to call me that evening to set the time and place...this is where things got a little rough.
Long story short I realized it was 8 o'clock and I hadn't heard from him. I was a little miffed...but I also knew that he had been under the gun at work and was leaving town in just a couple of day so he may have been running late or just a little scattered. I sent him a text (too chicken to call) asking him what was up? He called immediately, apologized and asked if I would still like to meet up. Sure why not. So we arranged to meet at the newly reopened Gravity Pub. He was very cute, funny, easy to talk to...and I have to say we would look good together (both short red-heads). He said he had a good time and was looking forward to doing it again (per the email the next day). He is away this week, visiting his family for the holidays. I hope to hear from him when he returns.
Date #2 is someone I've known for a while. I'm not sure about this one but he had the guts to ask me out so I figure I would give him a chance. I went to his place last night where he cooked me dinner...I haven't had a man cook for me in a VERY LONG TIME. It was a nice evening and he got me good and drunk...we will see what happens.
Count Down to T-Day
So I'm host Thanksgiving dinner for 20 (at last count) of my friends (and others) this week. That is after I run my first half-marathon. What was I thinking?
I made it to the Farmer's Market yesterday to get the turkey and fixings for my meal. What a mess!! The place was packed with other, just like myself, getting ready for the big day.
Besides shopping and getting ready to run I've also been trying to fix up the house a little. I got the kitchen painted over the weekend, new light fixtures installed in the kitchen and some new hardware for many of the interior doors. I don't think I will have time to do much else.
As many of you know I participated in an activity this weekend that took up much of my time. I will post a recap in a separate entry.
I will have a post up later today...
unfortunatly this little thing called work is getting in the way of me telling you about my weekend.
Check back this afternoon.
Check back this afternoon.
Friday, November 16, 2007
Sorry
I just realized it has been a month since I have last posted...
I've been all over the place this past month, emotionally, physically, etc.
I don't even know where to start.
The holiday blues have started early this year...I just wish I could fall asleep for the next 6 weeks and wake up when it is all over. Last year was so bad, I was hoping this year would be better but it isn't working out that way.
I'll write more when/if I get things sorted out...
I've been all over the place this past month, emotionally, physically, etc.
I don't even know where to start.
The holiday blues have started early this year...I just wish I could fall asleep for the next 6 weeks and wake up when it is all over. Last year was so bad, I was hoping this year would be better but it isn't working out that way.
I'll write more when/if I get things sorted out...
Monday, October 15, 2007
A Weekend with the B$@ch
Another weekend, another night passed out on the couch.
I was a good girl on Friday. I was not in the mood for happy hour, schlepping all my stuff to Piedmont Park, not knowing who would be there, had all the makings for a grumpy Martha. Instead, I got a hair cut and color so I would be ready for the wedding next Sunday. Good thing I gave it a week to grow out, she cut my bangs a little short but I should be fine by Sunday. I did a little yard work before darkness fell and got ready for the weekend.
Saturday morning I got up early and headed out to Yellow River (yes, Yellow River) to meet Barb for an early morning ride. The weather was beautiful and we explored trails I hadn't rode before. We bumped into several riders on horseback but they didn't seem to mind us on there trail. After an hour plus on trail and we headed back to the cars, I needed to check if BWANA wanted me to pick him up or if I was going to get to go to lunch with Nancy and Barb.
Yeah, lunch with Nancy and Barb it was. We headed to Jason's Deli in Tucker, which worked out great, I had a yummy spinach wrap and I had the chance to head to the craft store to pick up some notions for the final touches on my Halloween costume.
A quick drive across town, landed me in the lovey area of MLK and I285. After being warned by a security guard that is wasn't a safe area and a mad dash for flashlights we were off! Trail was well laid and interesting...I don't usually say this but it seemed a little short. BWANA had somewhere to be and needed time to make himself pretty so we wrapped up circle and headed back to EAV for dinner at la castia, a pitcher of margaritas later I was on my way home. I arrived home to find one section of my fence gone (the neighbor is putting up a new fence) and the a fore mentioned neighbor and a friend hanging out in the back yard. I pulled up a chair and had a couple (4) more beers with them before falling a sleep on the couch.
Day 2 of Bwanafest
Sunday morning was unremarkable, a trip to the store and a much need cleaning of the kitchen took up most of the morning. I communicated with my Black Sheep carpool buddies and arranged to meet at my place at 12:45 for the long trek to Alpharetta. At exactly 12:45 Paul showed up about 30 minutes later, a very emotional Betsy arrived. I loaned her an extra CamelBack, we loaded up the car and took off north to the land of the Soccer Mom's and Big SUVs.
It was a large turn out for the 450th running of the Black Sheep Hash. We all wandered around saying hello and giving hugs to those we haven't seen in awhile and those we saw just yesterday. The hounds took off (TLS, BWANA & 2 Crabs) and the pack followed 5 minutes later. I'm not one for remembering much of trail but there was a swamp, some creeks, one 'river' crossing...I was up to my neck in ice cold water, I look to my right and I see Pussy Pilot only wading waist deep!! Oh well, I'll get him back in the next time we enter a tunnel.
From Davey's hash trash...I never thought those 4 names would ever be seen in the same sentence: with Martha and Bone Hole and Blue Ball Special following P*ssy Pilot
I'm running with the big kids now!
Actually, there was a first time Black Sheep Hasher, just Bobby, also with us then. He is a cutie and did flirt a bit with me (Davey was going to flip me for him)...I needed that after the events of last week.
We packed out bags, checked our passports and headed back ITP. As shocking as it may seem the evening ended with pizza and more beer at Bwana's house and then me asleep on the couch.
I'm a bad mom
As I said earlier, one section of my fence is missing. If part of your fence is missing you might as well not have a fence.
Well, I'm use to having the back door open and the boy know how to get in and out by themselves. I had a little mental hiccup on Sunday and left the back door open. When I woke up an hour or so later, I found I was short one DOG!!! Crap. At least it was Toby, I knew he couldn't have gotten too far. I found him after a couple of frantic minutes in my neighbour's yard.
Busy Week Ahead
I need to enjoy the down time tonight, I have a busy weekend planned. Tomorrow night Donkey Punch will return to Charlie G's to defend our unbeaten record. Wednesday night...I can't say, it is a surprise. Thursday I'll be heading back to Gorin's and the Thrashers Game. Saturday, my first 15K and then the hash and winding up the week with a Sunday Run and the wedding of two good friends.
I was a good girl on Friday. I was not in the mood for happy hour, schlepping all my stuff to Piedmont Park, not knowing who would be there, had all the makings for a grumpy Martha. Instead, I got a hair cut and color so I would be ready for the wedding next Sunday. Good thing I gave it a week to grow out, she cut my bangs a little short but I should be fine by Sunday. I did a little yard work before darkness fell and got ready for the weekend.
Saturday morning I got up early and headed out to Yellow River (yes, Yellow River) to meet Barb for an early morning ride. The weather was beautiful and we explored trails I hadn't rode before. We bumped into several riders on horseback but they didn't seem to mind us on there trail. After an hour plus on trail and we headed back to the cars, I needed to check if BWANA wanted me to pick him up or if I was going to get to go to lunch with Nancy and Barb.
Yeah, lunch with Nancy and Barb it was. We headed to Jason's Deli in Tucker, which worked out great, I had a yummy spinach wrap and I had the chance to head to the craft store to pick up some notions for the final touches on my Halloween costume.
A quick drive across town, landed me in the lovey area of MLK and I285. After being warned by a security guard that is wasn't a safe area and a mad dash for flashlights we were off! Trail was well laid and interesting...I don't usually say this but it seemed a little short. BWANA had somewhere to be and needed time to make himself pretty so we wrapped up circle and headed back to EAV for dinner at la castia, a pitcher of margaritas later I was on my way home. I arrived home to find one section of my fence gone (the neighbor is putting up a new fence) and the a fore mentioned neighbor and a friend hanging out in the back yard. I pulled up a chair and had a couple (4) more beers with them before falling a sleep on the couch.
Day 2 of Bwanafest
Sunday morning was unremarkable, a trip to the store and a much need cleaning of the kitchen took up most of the morning. I communicated with my Black Sheep carpool buddies and arranged to meet at my place at 12:45 for the long trek to Alpharetta. At exactly 12:45 Paul showed up about 30 minutes later, a very emotional Betsy arrived. I loaned her an extra CamelBack, we loaded up the car and took off north to the land of the Soccer Mom's and Big SUVs.
It was a large turn out for the 450th running of the Black Sheep Hash. We all wandered around saying hello and giving hugs to those we haven't seen in awhile and those we saw just yesterday. The hounds took off (TLS, BWANA & 2 Crabs) and the pack followed 5 minutes later. I'm not one for remembering much of trail but there was a swamp, some creeks, one 'river' crossing...I was up to my neck in ice cold water, I look to my right and I see Pussy Pilot only wading waist deep!! Oh well, I'll get him back in the next time we enter a tunnel.
From Davey's hash trash...I never thought those 4 names would ever be seen in the same sentence: with Martha and Bone Hole and Blue Ball Special following P*ssy Pilot
I'm running with the big kids now!
Actually, there was a first time Black Sheep Hasher, just Bobby, also with us then. He is a cutie and did flirt a bit with me (Davey was going to flip me for him)...I needed that after the events of last week.
We packed out bags, checked our passports and headed back ITP. As shocking as it may seem the evening ended with pizza and more beer at Bwana's house and then me asleep on the couch.
I'm a bad mom
As I said earlier, one section of my fence is missing. If part of your fence is missing you might as well not have a fence.
Well, I'm use to having the back door open and the boy know how to get in and out by themselves. I had a little mental hiccup on Sunday and left the back door open. When I woke up an hour or so later, I found I was short one DOG!!! Crap. At least it was Toby, I knew he couldn't have gotten too far. I found him after a couple of frantic minutes in my neighbour's yard.
Busy Week Ahead
I need to enjoy the down time tonight, I have a busy weekend planned. Tomorrow night Donkey Punch will return to Charlie G's to defend our unbeaten record. Wednesday night...I can't say, it is a surprise. Thursday I'll be heading back to Gorin's and the Thrashers Game. Saturday, my first 15K and then the hash and winding up the week with a Sunday Run and the wedding of two good friends.
Friday, October 12, 2007
The Pricess and the Pea
Now on more than one occasion I've been called a Queen, Drama Queen that is and Harold has taken to calling me the Cazrina but I've never considered myself much of a princess, despite my desire to wear tiars.
That was until yesterday.
I'm sure you all remember the tale of The Princess and the Pea, to prove her Princess-ness a young girl at to sleep a top 40 mattress with a pea placed underneath. When questioned the next morning on her nights sleep she stated she slept poorly and was black and blue all over from somethine hard under the bed. This proved she was a princess, nobody but a princess could be so delicate. They lived happily ever after.
That was until yesterday.I'm sure you all remember the tale of The Princess and the Pea, to prove her Princess-ness a young girl at to sleep a top 40 mattress with a pea placed underneath. When questioned the next morning on her nights sleep she stated she slept poorly and was black and blue all over from somethine hard under the bed. This proved she was a princess, nobody but a princess could be so delicate. They lived happily ever after.
Now for my tomboy version for the 21st century.
Last night while finishing up mile 3 of a 9+ mile run, it started to feel like my entire sock had slouched down into my shoe, it was very uncomfortable to say the least. I finally had to stop running to readjust. I took off my shoe and found everything right were it was suppose to be?? Upon closer inspection I noticed a little bit of embrodery on the bottom of the sock (FYI these where new socks) used as the logo. That seriously couldn't be what was causing all that pain? I guess I need MORE new socks.
On a positive note, I ran 9.3 miles (15K) in 1 hour 28 minutes. My last 10K I ran in 1 hour 3 minutes, I feel ready for next Saturday at Peachtree City.
Friday, October 5, 2007
I Will Survive
but not because I have half a brain in my little red head.
As you may know I've been really working on my running. I've signed up for a 15K in just two weeks and I figured it might be a good idea to actually run that distance before race day.
I was a little concerned the weather would foil my plans, a quick look at the radar show a gap in the rain that was big enough for me to finish a 9 mile run without getting caught. I pack up up stuff and left the office without a word to anyone.
The run was okay, I was keeping a pace of 10 mph. Good time for me. I ran around Grant Park, east on Glennwood through the village, back tracked on Braeburn about mile 7 I hit a wall. I hadn't anything to eat since lunch and only brought water with me on the run...I guess it is time to buy some Gu. I still finish strong, 1 hour 34 min, not too shaby.
And now for the stupid part
The monthly running of SLUT (Slow Lazy Urban Thursday) was starting at 7:30. I had almost an hour to take a shower and drive a few miles up Moreland. I was not going to run. I took to heart the Slow Lazy part of this hash. I even figured I could just do a walker-short cut trail to the end. I also figured I would have a little company. Not so!
Everyone was giving me a hard time about not running and, being no smarter than Lic, I took of, full speed after the pack. I ran at the front of that damn pack for most of the trail. Not only was it a little long but full of shiggy. I had PT in the morning and I was trying to figure out a lie to tell my therapist when I limped in with my knee busted up again.
I got to the beer stop, cursed the hares, tried to smile at the boy I like and just took off again. When I finally saw the BN I was ecstatic...and half a mile later I actually saw beer!
Oh well, honestly a couple of beers and lots of laughs later I forgotten about trail and was having a great evening with good friends. That is what it is all about.
The drive back to the cars was the best part. Wil U Suck's tastes in music doesn't, we got to hear some of the finest songs of the 70s and I was the middle of a Martha sandwich with HoPo and the Bore, my bacon eating buddies.
The evening ended with a dirty, smelly, drunk group of hasher singing 'I Will Survive' and dancing in the middle of a church parking lot in the rain. I believed every word of it!
As you may know I've been really working on my running. I've signed up for a 15K in just two weeks and I figured it might be a good idea to actually run that distance before race day.
I was a little concerned the weather would foil my plans, a quick look at the radar show a gap in the rain that was big enough for me to finish a 9 mile run without getting caught. I pack up up stuff and left the office without a word to anyone.
The run was okay, I was keeping a pace of 10 mph. Good time for me. I ran around Grant Park, east on Glennwood through the village, back tracked on Braeburn about mile 7 I hit a wall. I hadn't anything to eat since lunch and only brought water with me on the run...I guess it is time to buy some Gu. I still finish strong, 1 hour 34 min, not too shaby.
And now for the stupid part
The monthly running of SLUT (Slow Lazy Urban Thursday) was starting at 7:30. I had almost an hour to take a shower and drive a few miles up Moreland. I was not going to run. I took to heart the Slow Lazy part of this hash. I even figured I could just do a walker-short cut trail to the end. I also figured I would have a little company. Not so!
Everyone was giving me a hard time about not running and, being no smarter than Lic, I took of, full speed after the pack. I ran at the front of that damn pack for most of the trail. Not only was it a little long but full of shiggy. I had PT in the morning and I was trying to figure out a lie to tell my therapist when I limped in with my knee busted up again.
I got to the beer stop, cursed the hares, tried to smile at the boy I like and just took off again. When I finally saw the BN I was ecstatic...and half a mile later I actually saw beer!
Oh well, honestly a couple of beers and lots of laughs later I forgotten about trail and was having a great evening with good friends. That is what it is all about.
The drive back to the cars was the best part. Wil U Suck's tastes in music doesn't, we got to hear some of the finest songs of the 70s and I was the middle of a Martha sandwich with HoPo and the Bore, my bacon eating buddies.
The evening ended with a dirty, smelly, drunk group of hasher singing 'I Will Survive' and dancing in the middle of a church parking lot in the rain. I believed every word of it!
First I was afraid
I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live without you by my side
But I spent so many nights thinking how you did me wrong
I grew strong
I learned how to carry on
and so you're backfrom outer space
I just walked in to find you here with that sad look upon your face
I should have changed my stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one secondyou'd be back to bother me
Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now'cause you're not welcome anymore
weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I'd crumbleyou think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
as long as i know how to love
I know I will stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
and I'll survive
I will survive
It took all the strength I had not to fall apart
kept trying hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart
and I spent oh so many nights just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
Now I hold my head up high
and you see me
somebody new
I'm not that chained up little person still in love with you
and so you felt like dropping in and just expect me to be free
now I'm saving all my loving for someone who's loving me
Thursday, October 4, 2007
A Trip Back in Time - Part 2
I got a text message from an old flame last night...interesting timing.
More to come on this recent event.
Bike Maintenance Night
Since I've started actually riding my bike I figured it was time for a little tune up. I had been having some problems with changing gears. As luck would have it last night was bike maintenance night at Kat and Mango's house. It was just a casual get together with lots of bikes, burgers and beers.
While some people there are hasher, others were Wheelhopper (close cousins) and others just like to ride bike. Come to find out one of the guys there is the husband of my co-worker. Small world.
Nothing exciting happened, I had a few beers and got my bike fixed. YEAH!!
I don't know if I'll get a chance to ride this weekend. I want to do a long run (9ish miles) this week. If it rains tonight I will have to do it on Saturday before the hash. I also have another tasks to accomplish on Saturday morning. More to come on that if I actually go through with it and I am able to work out some logistical issues.
I see big changes for 2008!
More to come on this recent event.
Bike Maintenance Night
Since I've started actually riding my bike I figured it was time for a little tune up. I had been having some problems with changing gears. As luck would have it last night was bike maintenance night at Kat and Mango's house. It was just a casual get together with lots of bikes, burgers and beers.
While some people there are hasher, others were Wheelhopper (close cousins) and others just like to ride bike. Come to find out one of the guys there is the husband of my co-worker. Small world.
Nothing exciting happened, I had a few beers and got my bike fixed. YEAH!!
I don't know if I'll get a chance to ride this weekend. I want to do a long run (9ish miles) this week. If it rains tonight I will have to do it on Saturday before the hash. I also have another tasks to accomplish on Saturday morning. More to come on that if I actually go through with it and I am able to work out some logistical issues.
I see big changes for 2008!
Monday, October 1, 2007
A Trip Back in Time
Even with the bum knee my running is really coming along. I ran 8 miles last Thursday, slow but I finished. Last night I ran just over 5 in near record time (for me). I have a 15K planned in two weeks, I'm sure I will be ready for it. This week I am going to try to run that distance and see how long it takes. I need a running partner.
The weekend was pretty much the same but somehow just a little better. A friend came over on Friday, we had planned on heading to Happy Hour together but in the end just hung out in the back yard and talked. It was really nice.
Saturday I finally did some yard work. I was a little embarrassed on Friday night when I realized what a mess the back yard had become. I've been so busy, being busy that I've been neglecting the house/yard. That needs to change just a little.
Saturday afternoon I headed to the hash, it was a pretty poor trail but beautiful weather, great company and a few cold beers made everyone forget about trail in no time. I went to the on after and had some really bad Mexican food and then spent the rest of the evening with a friend.
Sunday I headed off to Big Creek alone for some trail riding. I promised my physical therapist that I would stick to easy trails and not jump over anything. I made 3 or 4 loops and headed back to town. I'm glad I've started biking, it is a nice change of pace from running and a totally different group of people.
Now for the big decision of the weekend...to hash Black Sheep or not to hash Black Sheep. I had told myself that I was going to avoid it for awhile. Being around someone that calls me a whore is not the way I want to spend my Sunday afternoon. With encouragement from others, promised 'protection' if I was bothered, the fact that Robin, who I haven't seen in ages, was the hare and the start was only 15 minutes from my house I headed out.
It was a great day and a great trail...I spent most of my time on trail with Col. Cl!t, Big Bore, Just Marlin and Swamp Guinea. There was just enough 'swamp' to get really muddy and the trail was just long enough to make me feel like I earned my beer(s). We all hung out until the beer truck drove off and we headed to the on-after at the unforgettable Southern Comfort. I can't tell this story again but you can read all about it here...
I can say with almost complete certainty that we will not be back (other than to snap a photo for the blog).
Well that was my weekend. Having fun, drunk and tired is how I spent my time...and you?
The weekend was pretty much the same but somehow just a little better. A friend came over on Friday, we had planned on heading to Happy Hour together but in the end just hung out in the back yard and talked. It was really nice.
Saturday I finally did some yard work. I was a little embarrassed on Friday night when I realized what a mess the back yard had become. I've been so busy, being busy that I've been neglecting the house/yard. That needs to change just a little.
Saturday afternoon I headed to the hash, it was a pretty poor trail but beautiful weather, great company and a few cold beers made everyone forget about trail in no time. I went to the on after and had some really bad Mexican food and then spent the rest of the evening with a friend.
Sunday I headed off to Big Creek alone for some trail riding. I promised my physical therapist that I would stick to easy trails and not jump over anything. I made 3 or 4 loops and headed back to town. I'm glad I've started biking, it is a nice change of pace from running and a totally different group of people.
Now for the big decision of the weekend...to hash Black Sheep or not to hash Black Sheep. I had told myself that I was going to avoid it for awhile. Being around someone that calls me a whore is not the way I want to spend my Sunday afternoon. With encouragement from others, promised 'protection' if I was bothered, the fact that Robin, who I haven't seen in ages, was the hare and the start was only 15 minutes from my house I headed out.
It was a great day and a great trail...I spent most of my time on trail with Col. Cl!t, Big Bore, Just Marlin and Swamp Guinea. There was just enough 'swamp' to get really muddy and the trail was just long enough to make me feel like I earned my beer(s). We all hung out until the beer truck drove off and we headed to the on-after at the unforgettable Southern Comfort. I can't tell this story again but you can read all about it here...
I can say with almost complete certainty that we will not be back (other than to snap a photo for the blog).
Well that was my weekend. Having fun, drunk and tired is how I spent my time...and you?
Friday, September 28, 2007
ACL - anterior cruciate ligament
The anterior cruciate ligament (or ACL) is one of the four major ligements of the knee.
It connects from a posterio-lateral part of the femur to an anterio-medial part of the tibia. These attachments allow it to resist forces pushing the tibia forward relative to the femur.
More specifically, it is attached to the depression in front of the intercondyloid eminence of the tibia, being blended with the anterior extremity of the lateral meniscus.
It passes up, backward, and laterally, and is fixed into the medial and back part of the lateral condyle of the femur...
and mine is torn!! Crap!!
So yes I had an MRI before leaving town for Lake Hartwell. The following week the diagnosis was confirmed that I did tear my ACL while trying to run 10+ miles in the dark woods, aka DarkSide back in June.
My doctor is torn (no pun intended) between surgery and rehab/physical therapy. On one hand, I do play tennis which in pretty much impossible with a torn ACL, plus I'm pretty active and I could be back to near 100% of where I was before the injury with surgery. The other side of the coin is that my knee is pretty stable, I can walk, run, bike...do most of my normal activity. The only times I am having problems (i.e. walking down stairs, tennis) is when I'm asking my body to the most difficult activities for the knee.
I've spent two weeks going over all the pros and cons, while at the same time trying to deal with the emotional issues surrounding this feeling of helplessness. Right now we are taking a conservative approach of rehab/PT. If/when I have surgery it will have to be next year. I want to get through some races/runs I have planned and the holidays before I'm out of commission for months.
I'll keep you all updated on my progress.
FYI Google spell check does not recognize ACL as a word.
It connects from a posterio-lateral part of the femur to an anterio-medial part of the tibia. These attachments allow it to resist forces pushing the tibia forward relative to the femur.
More specifically, it is attached to the depression in front of the intercondyloid eminence of the tibia, being blended with the anterior extremity of the lateral meniscus.
It passes up, backward, and laterally, and is fixed into the medial and back part of the lateral condyle of the femur...
and mine is torn!! Crap!!
So yes I had an MRI before leaving town for Lake Hartwell. The following week the diagnosis was confirmed that I did tear my ACL while trying to run 10+ miles in the dark woods, aka DarkSide back in June.
My doctor is torn (no pun intended) between surgery and rehab/physical therapy. On one hand, I do play tennis which in pretty much impossible with a torn ACL, plus I'm pretty active and I could be back to near 100% of where I was before the injury with surgery. The other side of the coin is that my knee is pretty stable, I can walk, run, bike...do most of my normal activity. The only times I am having problems (i.e. walking down stairs, tennis) is when I'm asking my body to the most difficult activities for the knee.
I've spent two weeks going over all the pros and cons, while at the same time trying to deal with the emotional issues surrounding this feeling of helplessness. Right now we are taking a conservative approach of rehab/PT. If/when I have surgery it will have to be next year. I want to get through some races/runs I have planned and the holidays before I'm out of commission for months.
I'll keep you all updated on my progress.
FYI Google spell check does not recognize ACL as a word.
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
The Game was Called Because of Rain
Nope not baseball or even kickball, it was our weekly trivia that was canceled due to a broken pipe in the hotel above the bar. You can read the beginning of the story over at Stacy's site.
I'll pick things up after Stacy left.
After we evacuated the building we all stood outside pondering what to do next. Everyone seemed to stay calm with the exception of Charlie G's cook, who was running around, trying to make sure everyone knew it wasn't his fault. At least that is what I think he was saying...stating he had a speech impediment would be and understatement. Amy showed up and left right away, I called Karyn to let her know what was happening and got her voicemail, I didn't have Frank's number so he was on his own.
Our waitress stepped outside to have a smoke and I asked what else was close so we (Barb, Larry, Allen and myself) could grab some dinner and a beer. I felt a little guilty but everyone was hungry. We left Charlie G's and the rushing water to go to Front Page News. We were able to get a nice table outside, next to the fountain (eek the sound of rushing water again) and ordered our first round of drinks. Remarkably, Frank found us and joined us at his usual spot at the head of the table. We ordered dinner, the boys talked about the rivers of Poland, the War of 1812 and the guy that invented the sewing machine and had a couple of beers. We also toasted to AFD's newest paramedic (congrats again Allen).
Larry and I walked back to our cars, parked at Charlie G's when he offered to treat me to a liquid nitrogen margarita at Element. It was fun to watch it being made and it reminded me of tequila sorbet (oh if only there was such a creature). It was now well past 10 and decided to call it an evening. While walking past Charlie G's again we noticed they where open and serving!! If it had been a little earlier we might have stopped in just to see how much they accomplish in just a few hours. We will check it out next week when Donkey Punch returns once again in hopes of spending our booty!!
I'll pick things up after Stacy left.
After we evacuated the building we all stood outside pondering what to do next. Everyone seemed to stay calm with the exception of Charlie G's cook, who was running around, trying to make sure everyone knew it wasn't his fault. At least that is what I think he was saying...stating he had a speech impediment would be and understatement. Amy showed up and left right away, I called Karyn to let her know what was happening and got her voicemail, I didn't have Frank's number so he was on his own.
Our waitress stepped outside to have a smoke and I asked what else was close so we (Barb, Larry, Allen and myself) could grab some dinner and a beer. I felt a little guilty but everyone was hungry. We left Charlie G's and the rushing water to go to Front Page News. We were able to get a nice table outside, next to the fountain (eek the sound of rushing water again) and ordered our first round of drinks. Remarkably, Frank found us and joined us at his usual spot at the head of the table. We ordered dinner, the boys talked about the rivers of Poland, the War of 1812 and the guy that invented the sewing machine and had a couple of beers. We also toasted to AFD's newest paramedic (congrats again Allen).
Larry and I walked back to our cars, parked at Charlie G's when he offered to treat me to a liquid nitrogen margarita at Element. It was fun to watch it being made and it reminded me of tequila sorbet (oh if only there was such a creature). It was now well past 10 and decided to call it an evening. While walking past Charlie G's again we noticed they where open and serving!! If it had been a little earlier we might have stopped in just to see how much they accomplish in just a few hours. We will check it out next week when Donkey Punch returns once again in hopes of spending our booty!!
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
It is time to start cooking!
Fall is here, the weather is cooler and I can once again turn the oven back on without suffering heat stroke.
Perfect timing also, I received my October issues of Bon Appetit and it is full of yummy, fall inspired, comfort food. Sweet potatoes, butternut squash, hearty beef dishes, apples, both sweet and savory seem to dominate the issue.
Here's what I'm thinking of cooking very soon:
Fried Cornmeal Shrimp with Butternut Squash Risotto
Brown Sugar and Chocolate Chip Pound Cake with Maple-Espresso Glaze
Mahi-Mahi with Fresh Cilantro Chutney
Sweet Potato and Sausage Soup
Cabernet-Braised Short Ribs with Gorgonzola Polenta
Now I just need to find someone to cook for, anyone up for dinner at my place soon? (I'm not kidding!) I just need to make a trip to the farmer's market.
Perfect timing also, I received my October issues of Bon Appetit and it is full of yummy, fall inspired, comfort food. Sweet potatoes, butternut squash, hearty beef dishes, apples, both sweet and savory seem to dominate the issue.
Here's what I'm thinking of cooking very soon:
Fried Cornmeal Shrimp with Butternut Squash Risotto
Brown Sugar and Chocolate Chip Pound Cake with Maple-Espresso Glaze
Mahi-Mahi with Fresh Cilantro Chutney
Sweet Potato and Sausage Soup
Cabernet-Braised Short Ribs with Gorgonzola Polenta
Now I just need to find someone to cook for, anyone up for dinner at my place soon? (I'm not kidding!) I just need to make a trip to the farmer's market.
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
D & M Drama - Lake Hartwell Edition
I'm not going to go into details on this...but hopefully Lake Hartwell was the Farewell Tour for Drama 2007. Miscommunication and stupid ideas have always provided a back drop for this relationship...so at least there were no surprises the way it ended.
In spite of a couple of hours of that...I had a great time. There was plenty of beer, food, sun, fun and great company. I even got mugged!!
Lessons learned this weekend!
1) 3 people can fit in my tent
2) girls of German/Irish decent should be more careful when wearing a two-piece swimsuit for the first time since they were 6!! (my tummy is still burnt).
3) never leave camp (I already knew that one)
4) don't eat a lot of melon before downing an oil can of Fosters Beer
In spite of a couple of hours of that...I had a great time. There was plenty of beer, food, sun, fun and great company. I even got mugged!!
Lessons learned this weekend!
1) 3 people can fit in my tent
2) girls of German/Irish decent should be more careful when wearing a two-piece swimsuit for the first time since they were 6!! (my tummy is still burnt).
3) never leave camp (I already knew that one)
4) don't eat a lot of melon before downing an oil can of Fosters Beer
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Seriously, Donkey Punch
I read that Sweetwater has a new beer that they are going to call Donkey Punch. I know what a Donkey Punch is from my days working in HIV/AIDS prevention. One night I took a visiting CBO Director from Boston out for dinner. He was stuck at a hotel in Tucker and I just felt bad for him, it was not official business. We went to Agave (I haven't been there in ages) and they we headed to Mary's for a drink. Little did I know it was trivia night, specifically Sexual Trivia, and one question was 'What is a Donkey Punch?', I didn't know but soon found out...and people think I have a little kink in my background.
Speaking of Trivia, last night I headed back to Charlie G's for weekly trivia. It was a new crowd last night but quite interesting. Barb and Dean where there and to my surprise boy #1 and boy#3 showed up! I got to sit between the two of them, trying hard to suppress the giggles bubbling up inside me. It was a little exciting. When the bill came they both offered to pick up my tab, boy #3 won. Boy#1 later invited me out for a drink. I doubt anything will happen with either but it sure was faltering and I'm going to enjoy it while I can.
Most importantly we won first place and $50 in bar cash.
I'll be back next week.
Lake Hartwell
The Black Sheep Lake Hartwell Campout is fast approaching. I'm tentative about going, relations with D are still strained. I can deal with him, it is just the thought of him with someone else that is hard. I got an email from him today that he will be coming to the campout alone? Strange.
I am going to work very hard to enjoy this weekend. Boner will be there and he is such a calming and supportive force for me. He doesn't particularly care for D, more specifically how D has treated me. He's one of the people that knows I can do better. There will also be several girlfriends and at least one boy to pay me some attention.
I need to get cracking and get ready for this trip.
Speaking of Trivia, last night I headed back to Charlie G's for weekly trivia. It was a new crowd last night but quite interesting. Barb and Dean where there and to my surprise boy #1 and boy#3 showed up! I got to sit between the two of them, trying hard to suppress the giggles bubbling up inside me. It was a little exciting. When the bill came they both offered to pick up my tab, boy #3 won. Boy#1 later invited me out for a drink. I doubt anything will happen with either but it sure was faltering and I'm going to enjoy it while I can.
Most importantly we won first place and $50 in bar cash.
I'll be back next week.
Lake Hartwell
The Black Sheep Lake Hartwell Campout is fast approaching. I'm tentative about going, relations with D are still strained. I can deal with him, it is just the thought of him with someone else that is hard. I got an email from him today that he will be coming to the campout alone? Strange.
I am going to work very hard to enjoy this weekend. Boner will be there and he is such a calming and supportive force for me. He doesn't particularly care for D, more specifically how D has treated me. He's one of the people that knows I can do better. There will also be several girlfriends and at least one boy to pay me some attention.
I need to get cracking and get ready for this trip.
Monday, September 10, 2007
What time is it?
So after a long run and an even longer brunch I finally made it home sometime around 5:30 last night. I made a phone call at 6:04 pm and that was it. I awoke, looked at the clock it said 7:00. Damn, I'm running late for work, oh wait not going to the office today, I have to take Toby to the vet...good I can lay here just a bit longer. That is when it dawned on me just how dark it was outside. Yes, in my drunken haze I mistook 7 pm Sunday for 7 am Monday. I went out hard...I checked my phone, which was right by my head, someone called at 6:24 and I missed it, I didn't hear a sound.
It is now 3:30 am and I am wide awake...this sucks.
God lord, I need to stop drinking.
It is now 3:30 am and I am wide awake...this sucks.
God lord, I need to stop drinking.
Friday, September 7, 2007
Average Joes 1, Indy Colts 41
Well we couldn't have done much worse than the Saints. Here is my sports wrap up from yesterday.
Average Joes vs. Wanahawkalugi
Average Joes started out strong scoring a run in the first inning...sadly that was our last run also. After the second inning we got our defense down and held Wanahawkalugi to only one more run. We need to work on some offense.
I was useless...my knee gave out during my first time kicking.
Colts vs. Saints
Last night was the season opener for the current Super Bowl Champs the Indianapolis Colts. They wiped the field at the RCA Dome with the Saints. Out scoring the visiting team 31-0 in the second half.
MRIs
I have my first MRI scheduled for next week. I guess now I am a real athlete. This MRI is to see if I have torn my ACL. I hope not but everything is leading me to believe that is what has happened.
Everyone please keep your finger crossed.
Giving
I'll admit it, I don't feel I give enough, either of my time or money. I am still fostering for Basset Rescue and I'm currently paying Toby's medical bills. However, since I'm probably going to keep the slobbery little beast does it really count?
One idea that I've always found interesting is Microcredit.
Microcredit is the extension of very small loans (microloans) to the unemployed, to poor entrepreneurs and to others living in poverty who are not considered bankable.
You can donate as little as $25 to help someone in a developing country start a business. The repayment on these loans is very high, 99%+. Many times these loans are given to women, who seem to be better at managing and paying back the loans then men.
Currently this site is not taking any more donations...amazingly every loan has been funded. Keep it in mind for the next time you want to make a big difference for just a little cash.
www.kiva.org
For more information on microloans check out this article on the Noble Prize winning Micro-Loan Pioneers.
Average Joes vs. Wanahawkalugi
Average Joes started out strong scoring a run in the first inning...sadly that was our last run also. After the second inning we got our defense down and held Wanahawkalugi to only one more run. We need to work on some offense.
I was useless...my knee gave out during my first time kicking.
Colts vs. Saints
Last night was the season opener for the current Super Bowl Champs the Indianapolis Colts. They wiped the field at the RCA Dome with the Saints. Out scoring the visiting team 31-0 in the second half.
MRIs
I have my first MRI scheduled for next week. I guess now I am a real athlete. This MRI is to see if I have torn my ACL. I hope not but everything is leading me to believe that is what has happened.
Everyone please keep your finger crossed.
Giving
I'll admit it, I don't feel I give enough, either of my time or money. I am still fostering for Basset Rescue and I'm currently paying Toby's medical bills. However, since I'm probably going to keep the slobbery little beast does it really count?
One idea that I've always found interesting is Microcredit.
Microcredit is the extension of very small loans (microloans) to the unemployed, to poor entrepreneurs and to others living in poverty who are not considered bankable.
You can donate as little as $25 to help someone in a developing country start a business. The repayment on these loans is very high, 99%+. Many times these loans are given to women, who seem to be better at managing and paying back the loans then men.
Currently this site is not taking any more donations...amazingly every loan has been funded. Keep it in mind for the next time you want to make a big difference for just a little cash.
www.kiva.org
For more information on microloans check out this article on the Noble Prize winning Micro-Loan Pioneers.
Boy Crazy
Okay not me (well maybe a little) but the last two weeks have been pretty bizarre when it comes to the men that are in my life.
Boy Crazy 1
A couple of weeks ago, after a hash, a group of us went out, slowly the group became two. We headed out for '1 more beer' and got to talking. We've both dated hashers and we have both sworn off dating anymore. I took him back to his car at the end of the evening, as he was leaving he made a comment about how it was 'too bad we weren't dating hashers because we could be good together'. Something along those lines. I laughed it off and drove home. During the next week I got several flirty emails from this gentleman. That seems to have passed but nice to know it was there.
Boy Crazy 2
The past weekend I was able to have a positive experience with an ex. After a rough start on Friday, I saw him and it was good the next two days, even if he did forget my birthday present :) So on Sunday I invited him to hang with the group at Zocolo's he declined but asked if I wanted to do something the following evening. Maybe I was reading too much into the wording but it sounded a little date'ish to me.
After a couple of text messages we agreed on a time and a place. At the last minute he called to suggest going to the park. Under normal circumstances I would have loved this...I was always suggesting picnics in the park when we where together but we aren't now. I went anyway, now it really felt like a date, sitting on a blanket, under a shady oak, in a secluded part of the park while having a drink. We talked, we talked about the past, present & future...it was mostly good. He made one comment I thought inappropriate for a man currently in a relationship to make and I told him so...can men really be that dense?
Boy Crazy 3
A typical Wednesday night a George's, the usual suspects where there. I had a few beers and got caught up on the latest gossip. A friend (we've hung out together in the past and we email each other from time to time but I've considered him more of a friend of a friend) showed up, offered me dinner and drinks for my birthday. This felt like a date, I was dressed up, he was buying, great conversation, but without the pressure of a date...or so I thought.
We left George's and he walked me to my car and kissed me?!? I was just as surprised as you are, I don't know where that came from. Again I don't think anything will come of it...but it did boost my spirits.
38 might just be a good year. I wonder what this weekend will hold for me??
Boy Crazy 1
A couple of weeks ago, after a hash, a group of us went out, slowly the group became two. We headed out for '1 more beer' and got to talking. We've both dated hashers and we have both sworn off dating anymore. I took him back to his car at the end of the evening, as he was leaving he made a comment about how it was 'too bad we weren't dating hashers because we could be good together'. Something along those lines. I laughed it off and drove home. During the next week I got several flirty emails from this gentleman. That seems to have passed but nice to know it was there.
Boy Crazy 2
The past weekend I was able to have a positive experience with an ex. After a rough start on Friday, I saw him and it was good the next two days, even if he did forget my birthday present :) So on Sunday I invited him to hang with the group at Zocolo's he declined but asked if I wanted to do something the following evening. Maybe I was reading too much into the wording but it sounded a little date'ish to me.
After a couple of text messages we agreed on a time and a place. At the last minute he called to suggest going to the park. Under normal circumstances I would have loved this...I was always suggesting picnics in the park when we where together but we aren't now. I went anyway, now it really felt like a date, sitting on a blanket, under a shady oak, in a secluded part of the park while having a drink. We talked, we talked about the past, present & future...it was mostly good. He made one comment I thought inappropriate for a man currently in a relationship to make and I told him so...can men really be that dense?
Boy Crazy 3
A typical Wednesday night a George's, the usual suspects where there. I had a few beers and got caught up on the latest gossip. A friend (we've hung out together in the past and we email each other from time to time but I've considered him more of a friend of a friend) showed up, offered me dinner and drinks for my birthday. This felt like a date, I was dressed up, he was buying, great conversation, but without the pressure of a date...or so I thought.
We left George's and he walked me to my car and kissed me?!? I was just as surprised as you are, I don't know where that came from. Again I don't think anything will come of it...but it did boost my spirits.
38 might just be a good year. I wonder what this weekend will hold for me??
Thursday, September 6, 2007
I'm Finally Beginning to Believe
People have been telling me for weeks, if not months, that I deserve nothing but the best. That I deserve someone who will love me, respect me, woo me, pursue me...someone that recognizes just how lucky he is to have a girl like me, smart, pretty, educated, funny, popular, respected, responsible, loving, big hearted, hard working, financially secure, athletic, interesting and an awesome cook to boot. I should not be any one's second choice, there is no competition...it is a no brainer.
Anyone that can't recognize that doesn't deserve me.
Thank you to everyone that has believe in me.
I'm Good Enough, I'm Smart Enough, and Doggone It, People Like Me!
Anyone that can't recognize that doesn't deserve me.
Thank you to everyone that has believe in me.
I'm Good Enough, I'm Smart Enough, and Doggone It, People Like Me!
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Reliving those college days
Last night was pretty laid back. I didn't go for the run I was planning on, I grilled a turkey burger and corn on the cob on the grill. I had to pick up a friend at the airport around 8:30, lucky him he got to spent the weekend in Northern Cali, visiting wineries for work.
The airport was crazy but I managed to find him on the second pass by the terminal. I drove him home and he offered me a tour of his house, I had never been there before...and now I know why.
OH LORD!! It was as bad if not worse than some of the frat houses I visited in my younger years, complete with empty beer cans, overflowing ashtrays, left over take-out and the cinder block entertainment center. If I ever had any doubts about my relationship with this person they have now been confirmed.
He was nice enough to bring me back a hat from his trip.
I left there as quickly has good manners would allow and headed home for an early nights sleep.
The airport was crazy but I managed to find him on the second pass by the terminal. I drove him home and he offered me a tour of his house, I had never been there before...and now I know why.
OH LORD!! It was as bad if not worse than some of the frat houses I visited in my younger years, complete with empty beer cans, overflowing ashtrays, left over take-out and the cinder block entertainment center. If I ever had any doubts about my relationship with this person they have now been confirmed.
He was nice enough to bring me back a hat from his trip.
I left there as quickly has good manners would allow and headed home for an early nights sleep.
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Happy Birthday to Me
Yes it was that time of year again...time to celebrate, not getting another year older, but another year better.
Honestly, up until the last few years I've never really enjoyed my birthday. It falls around the Labor Day weekend, most people are out of town, there are other things to do...I've spent far to many birthdays alone. My how times have changed!
Friday night
The best part of my weekend is that I have an extra day to celebrate.
I took the day off work on Friday. I treated myself to some shopping, a hair cut and I even did my nails. I got tons done on my To Do List, it really felt good. Lately, I feel like I've just been treating water.
Friday Night Happy Hour was being held, in my honor, at the Glenwood in EAV. It was a small group, being that many of the regulars were out of town for the weekend, but a group I was very happy to spend time with that night.
I managed to avoid the evil monkey and several offers of shots...didn't completely work. I did mange to do something (but at least not someone) stupid that night.
Saturday
I foolishly offered to lay a trail and throw a party on Saturday afternoon. I woke up early and made a quick change to the schedule. I headed out about 8 am to recee and lay the trail for the day. I quickly found a flaw in my original plan and had to improvise. It's all good.
About 30 people showed up for the trail. When the pack headed off, Michelle, Stacy and myself headed back to my place to attended to some last minute party details. Much to my surprise I found my back yard decorated with many balloons, thanks Stacy. Adam showed up about 2:30, tapped the keg and the party was now officially started. We didn't have to wait long for everyone.
This is when things began to get a little sketchy. I do remember everyone seemed to be having a great time, much beer was consumed, Bill and Bean ran circle for me since I was just a little to tipsy to handle such responsibility, Darren showed up (and that worked out okay) and we floated the keg sometime around 6 pm. The brain trust stood around for several minutes wondering what was wrong with the keg...it just couldn't be empty. Next thing I know Paulie is asking if we need a beer run and he was off....good man that Paulie :)
Somewhere in all this dinner was prepared, Stacy and I changed into our 'party clothes' and many more people came and went...next year I think I should have a guest book so I can remember everyone that showed up.
The evening ended with a game of three man.
Sunday is a Black Sheep Day
Honestly, up until the last few years I've never really enjoyed my birthday. It falls around the Labor Day weekend, most people are out of town, there are other things to do...I've spent far to many birthdays alone. My how times have changed!
Friday night
The best part of my weekend is that I have an extra day to celebrate.
I took the day off work on Friday. I treated myself to some shopping, a hair cut and I even did my nails. I got tons done on my To Do List, it really felt good. Lately, I feel like I've just been treating water.
Friday Night Happy Hour was being held, in my honor, at the Glenwood in EAV. It was a small group, being that many of the regulars were out of town for the weekend, but a group I was very happy to spend time with that night.
I managed to avoid the evil monkey and several offers of shots...didn't completely work. I did mange to do something (but at least not someone) stupid that night.
Saturday
I foolishly offered to lay a trail and throw a party on Saturday afternoon. I woke up early and made a quick change to the schedule. I headed out about 8 am to recee and lay the trail for the day. I quickly found a flaw in my original plan and had to improvise. It's all good.
About 30 people showed up for the trail. When the pack headed off, Michelle, Stacy and myself headed back to my place to attended to some last minute party details. Much to my surprise I found my back yard decorated with many balloons, thanks Stacy. Adam showed up about 2:30, tapped the keg and the party was now officially started. We didn't have to wait long for everyone.
This is when things began to get a little sketchy. I do remember everyone seemed to be having a great time, much beer was consumed, Bill and Bean ran circle for me since I was just a little to tipsy to handle such responsibility, Darren showed up (and that worked out okay) and we floated the keg sometime around 6 pm. The brain trust stood around for several minutes wondering what was wrong with the keg...it just couldn't be empty. Next thing I know Paulie is asking if we need a beer run and he was off....good man that Paulie :)
Somewhere in all this dinner was prepared, Stacy and I changed into our 'party clothes' and many more people came and went...next year I think I should have a guest book so I can remember everyone that showed up.
The evening ended with a game of three man.
Sunday is a Black Sheep Day
I woke up again early on Sunday, I spend most of the morning cleaning the house and debating going to Black Sheep. An email from Paulie convinced me to make the drive to Covington. It was a small crowd but again a good crowd. Trail was pretty short (no thanks to Kapt' Krash) and there was much beer to be had afterwards. D was there alone and I was able to speak with him and we hung out for a bit, it was nice.
The night ended (as usual) with tacos and more beer at Zocolo's.
Bonus Monday
I didn't have much planned for Monday, I was driving north to return the keg cooler I borrowed from a friend when Paulie called to remind me of a dim sum lunch in Chamblee with Betsy and Harold. Since I was almost there I declined the offer of a car pool and drove straight to Royal China. Yummy!! I stuffed myself.
I returned the keg and restocked my beer supply and headed home for a nap.
Monday night was interested, drinks with a friend that felt more like a date. It is pretty confusing for me right now.
Thank you to everyone that spent time with me and shared my birthday with me. You have no idea how much it all meant to me.
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Time Off
Now that I know my job is secure for at least a few more months I'm ready for some time off.
I've been hesitant to use my vacation time in the off chance I might have to live off of it for a few weeks in between jobs. I don't have anywhere to go or anyone to go with but I guess just some down time would be good for me. I feel like I am on the go all the time. That is because I hate to be home alone most of the time. I am pretty burnt out, I would love a little time away, relaxing on a beach or something but see above.
I left work early yesterday and I'm at home today doing a minimal amount of work. I'm not feeling really well, my stomach has been bothering me for days (again see above) and I'm just tired. It is all stress related.
I might head out for a walk/jog in a bit, before it gets too hot. I have my first kickball game tonight, I'm hoping it will be a good way to meet some new people.
What I did yesterday after leaving work...
I've been hesitant to use my vacation time in the off chance I might have to live off of it for a few weeks in between jobs. I don't have anywhere to go or anyone to go with but I guess just some down time would be good for me. I feel like I am on the go all the time. That is because I hate to be home alone most of the time. I am pretty burnt out, I would love a little time away, relaxing on a beach or something but see above.
I left work early yesterday and I'm at home today doing a minimal amount of work. I'm not feeling really well, my stomach has been bothering me for days (again see above) and I'm just tired. It is all stress related.
I might head out for a walk/jog in a bit, before it gets too hot. I have my first kickball game tonight, I'm hoping it will be a good way to meet some new people.
What I did yesterday after leaving work...
I went shopping and bought myself some pretty, blue chairs for the back yard. I had been eyeing the chairs at Target for awhile. They were $24.99, I saw them on sale one day for about $18 but left the store without buying them (I forgot), I went back a few days later and they were back up to the regular price. I stooped in yesterday to buy a lounger, I don't know why, too damn hot to be outside...I didn't get the lounger but the chairs where marked down to $12.48...so instead of just getting two, I bought 4...they will be a nice addition once the weather cools down enough to enjoy the back yard again.
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Employment Update
As of 3:58 pm today my contract has been extended until the end of the year.
This is great news...I should be debt free, except for mortgage and student loan before I need to look for another job.
That will take a lot of pressure off of me when I need to start looking again.
This is great news...I should be debt free, except for mortgage and student loan before I need to look for another job.
That will take a lot of pressure off of me when I need to start looking again.
I'm too tired to think of a title
So last night was fun. I headed to Midtown to play trivia with some fellow hashers. We did well, it was a rough second round but we pulled off a second place finish. Not bad since I haven't played in years. I manage to grab a bite to eat and get the beer consumption in check. A good night with no drama.
So where was the drama?
The drama was located about 2 hours before trivia started. I sent an email, it was misunderstood, nastiness ensued, then talking and then a resolution. Still in limbo on this one.
Time off...
I've got a few vacation days planned but no vacation (that's another issue). I'm taking next Friday off for my birthday. I hope to treat myself to some shopping and a nice lunch, nothing more is planned. I'm not really looking forward to my birthday this year since it will be another milestone of being alone. I've always felt that you should be with someone on two holidays...your birthday and new years eve...I've struck out for the last year on both of those.
Speaking of my birthday, I bought myself a new, 27'' LCD flat screen yesterday. I'm very excited about this is one. My old TV is about 11 years old, I won it in a raffle...so not top of the line and is only about 20 inches. The girls are already planning movie night at my place, I guess now I need to buy a DVD player.
The Weekend
Last weekend was great. There was a rough start on Friday but Saturday & Sunday made up for it.
Saturday I drove to Decatur for the hash. I had a good feeling about the trail and it was not unfounded. I was out about an hour, just perfect in this god awful heat. The end was shady, there was a hose and plenty of cold beer and good company. Once the beer was gone (I need to remember to bring more this weekend) the gang headed over to Twain's for some dinner. I had Fish & Chips which I had been craving for weeks and tried a couple of the house brews. Then a smaller group (Dakota, Bill & Nancy) walked over to Ted's to wish my friend Stacy a happy birthday. We were informed of the plan to head over to the Brick Store. We found a table outside, it wasn't any hotter than inside the crowded bar. More drinks, more people, more fun. We lost Dakota and gained Shane when we went to Sushi Avenue to share a late night snack. One last trip to Twain's were I cried just a bit in my beer and I headed home for a decent (relativity speaking) night's sleep.
Sunday was the Black Sheep run, specifically the 7th (I think) running of Catch the Crabs. I missed this trail last year when the pack was stuck by lightning. I was hesitant to go but my good friends Paul and Betsy said they would car pool with me, which meant I didn't have to show up alone. The day went well...no drama...even a few pleasantries were spoke. I had an awesome run thanks to a 1.25 mile tunnel that slowed all the big folks down. While the guys where crawling on their hands and knees and having to rest every time there was a break in the tunnel, little Martha just kept chugging through. I was about the 5th person in...NEVER has that happened before at BS...It felt pretty great.
There was a little confusion about the end but once things were settled we had circle and the Grant Park/EAV crew headed back to Tony's place for another beer before Zocolo's.
The night ended with a little Gordon Ramsey on the BBC back at Tony's place.
I'm very lucky to have the friends I do...I must keep reminding myself of that fact.
Another bit of good news...
I've paid off my second to last credit card this week.
So where was the drama?
The drama was located about 2 hours before trivia started. I sent an email, it was misunderstood, nastiness ensued, then talking and then a resolution. Still in limbo on this one.
Time off...
I've got a few vacation days planned but no vacation (that's another issue). I'm taking next Friday off for my birthday. I hope to treat myself to some shopping and a nice lunch, nothing more is planned. I'm not really looking forward to my birthday this year since it will be another milestone of being alone. I've always felt that you should be with someone on two holidays...your birthday and new years eve...I've struck out for the last year on both of those.
Speaking of my birthday, I bought myself a new, 27'' LCD flat screen yesterday. I'm very excited about this is one. My old TV is about 11 years old, I won it in a raffle...so not top of the line and is only about 20 inches. The girls are already planning movie night at my place, I guess now I need to buy a DVD player.
The Weekend
Last weekend was great. There was a rough start on Friday but Saturday & Sunday made up for it.
Saturday I drove to Decatur for the hash. I had a good feeling about the trail and it was not unfounded. I was out about an hour, just perfect in this god awful heat. The end was shady, there was a hose and plenty of cold beer and good company. Once the beer was gone (I need to remember to bring more this weekend) the gang headed over to Twain's for some dinner. I had Fish & Chips which I had been craving for weeks and tried a couple of the house brews. Then a smaller group (Dakota, Bill & Nancy) walked over to Ted's to wish my friend Stacy a happy birthday. We were informed of the plan to head over to the Brick Store. We found a table outside, it wasn't any hotter than inside the crowded bar. More drinks, more people, more fun. We lost Dakota and gained Shane when we went to Sushi Avenue to share a late night snack. One last trip to Twain's were I cried just a bit in my beer and I headed home for a decent (relativity speaking) night's sleep.
Sunday was the Black Sheep run, specifically the 7th (I think) running of Catch the Crabs. I missed this trail last year when the pack was stuck by lightning. I was hesitant to go but my good friends Paul and Betsy said they would car pool with me, which meant I didn't have to show up alone. The day went well...no drama...even a few pleasantries were spoke. I had an awesome run thanks to a 1.25 mile tunnel that slowed all the big folks down. While the guys where crawling on their hands and knees and having to rest every time there was a break in the tunnel, little Martha just kept chugging through. I was about the 5th person in...NEVER has that happened before at BS...It felt pretty great.
There was a little confusion about the end but once things were settled we had circle and the Grant Park/EAV crew headed back to Tony's place for another beer before Zocolo's.
The night ended with a little Gordon Ramsey on the BBC back at Tony's place.
I'm very lucky to have the friends I do...I must keep reminding myself of that fact.
Another bit of good news...
I've paid off my second to last credit card this week.
Saturday, August 18, 2007
I guess that is it
I put myself through hell the last 10 days and it would seem like it was all for nothing.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
The Crazys are Back
I drank too much last night and didn't get enough sleep...it doesn't help my current mood. If I had anything else to do today I would probably leave work right now but then I would just be sitting at home driving myself crazy.
I don't have a good feeling about things right now...there has been almost no communication in the last couple of days. I know we said we would touch base on Friday and maybe talk some more but I'm not even getting responses to simple, friendly emails.
Speaking of Crazy...how nuts to you have to be to drive around in a car full of trash???
Taken yesterday in the parking garage at work. Yes the trash does go all the way up to the windows!
I don't have a good feeling about things right now...there has been almost no communication in the last couple of days. I know we said we would touch base on Friday and maybe talk some more but I'm not even getting responses to simple, friendly emails.
Speaking of Crazy...how nuts to you have to be to drive around in a car full of trash???
Taken yesterday in the parking garage at work. Yes the trash does go all the way up to the windows!
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Job Hunting?
Well if anyone remember a few months ago, I lost my job for about 18 hours. The next day I was told the contract was extended until the end of August. Well guess what...that deadline is approaching quickly and I haven't heard anything but rumors. I've been told the contract will probably be extended until the end of the year...but nothing concrete as of yet. We do have a big staff meeting today and I am hoping for some good news. As much as this job drives me crazy some days, it is in a great location (only a 7 mile commute), it is very flexible as far as time off, working from home, etc. and my boss (while a little crazy sometimes) is very nice and seems to like me a lot. Plus the paycheck isn't too bad either.
I got a call yesterday from a recruiter with an open position in banking. This has some appeal to me. First, banking is much more profitable than public health, second, if (big if) things work out the way I want there could be a chance that I may move to a city that is very big into banking. It would be nice to have some experience to take with me. The pay is slightly better, I'm not sure about additional compensation. The down side would be a longer commute, a more 'professional' work environment and it is only a 6 month contract (temp to hire position). I have an interview set up for Friday. I don't have anything to wear...the dress is business professional...I've been business casual for the past 9 years. Oh well an excuse to go shopping.
Otherwise nothing new to report.
I got a call yesterday from a recruiter with an open position in banking. This has some appeal to me. First, banking is much more profitable than public health, second, if (big if) things work out the way I want there could be a chance that I may move to a city that is very big into banking. It would be nice to have some experience to take with me. The pay is slightly better, I'm not sure about additional compensation. The down side would be a longer commute, a more 'professional' work environment and it is only a 6 month contract (temp to hire position). I have an interview set up for Friday. I don't have anything to wear...the dress is business professional...I've been business casual for the past 9 years. Oh well an excuse to go shopping.
Otherwise nothing new to report.
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
A new week and a new outlook
Well last week was just terrible. I wasn't eating, I wasn't sleeping, I was completely stress out by recent events. For weeks I've been trying to determine why two normally reasonable people were still reacting in such an awful way to each other. The events of the past weekend had taken its toll. I did not want to continue this behavior any longer. I was tired of the fighting.
So I'm not sure what will happen but I have to follow my heart and live with the consequences. We are talking (not yelling, not snipping) about the big issues that lead to the relationship going so wrong and working on being friends.
You would think 'being friends' would be simple...but I feel we need to even discuss that. Our past communication has gone so wrong, there have been so many misunderstandings and missed opportunities, that I want to discuss everything so each of us knows what the other is expecting.
We are set to talk again this Friday.
So I'm not sure what will happen but I have to follow my heart and live with the consequences. We are talking (not yelling, not snipping) about the big issues that lead to the relationship going so wrong and working on being friends.
You would think 'being friends' would be simple...but I feel we need to even discuss that. Our past communication has gone so wrong, there have been so many misunderstandings and missed opportunities, that I want to discuss everything so each of us knows what the other is expecting.
We are set to talk again this Friday.
Friday, August 10, 2007
All my cards are on the table
Now I'm just waiting to see what happens.
I do know now how it feels to walk in someone else's shoes...
I do know now how it feels to walk in someone else's shoes...
Thursday, August 9, 2007
Lying Low
It is too damn hot and I am too damn tired to do much this week.
Ass may I introduce to you Couch, Couch this is ass....
Also is it Laying Low or Lying Low...where is an English major when you need one...I guess I could look it up.
Later that day....
Martha is still cranky...her email has been down for over 2 hours.
Ass may I introduce to you Couch, Couch this is ass....
Also is it Laying Low or Lying Low...where is an English major when you need one...I guess I could look it up.
Later that day....
Martha is still cranky...her email has been down for over 2 hours.
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Monday and Moonlight
Well I made it through my first day back...it wasn't easy. I was thinking about taking the day off but why waste a day off when you aren't feeling well. I decided to save it until I was feeling better and could enjoy myself.
Nothing much to report. It is quite clear at this point that D and I still have issues that we can't seem to work out. As I said yesterday, I tried to just ignore them...but she wasn't having it. In D's defense, he was actually behaving himself and trying to stay away. She was the one pushing my buttons. He also did listen to my side and agreed with me on some points. Yes I wish I could have just kept walking away but sooner or later I had to stick up for myself.
Instead of going home, sulking and hoping for a phone call, I ran home, changed my clothes and headed out to the Moonlight Hash that my buddy BWANA was haring that evening. It was a hot, sticky, miserable run. I think I was still pretty dehydrated from the weekend, I hadn't ate much all day...and well the heat was bad for all of us.
Thankful for my anal-retentive attention to details I remember BWANA telling me weeks ago it was going to end at Dakota Blue...once I hit Glennwood I made a beeline towards Grant Park. I picked up EZ-Cheecks along the way. It is always good to see her, we discussed boys both past, present and future.
I ordered a bean burrito (I'm back on the diet) and skipped the beer. I ran a super short circle and was home (after taking the scenic route back to the car, thanks ButtBob for the tour) by 10. I took a shower, sat for bit in front of the TV, and thought about what a good night sleep I was going to have. Once again I was wrong. I tossed and turned most of the night. Well there is always tonight. There will be no running for me when I get home, if I do anything it will be at the gym.
I'm thinking a trip to the store might be a better use of the evening...Martha's cupboards are bare.
Nothing much to report. It is quite clear at this point that D and I still have issues that we can't seem to work out. As I said yesterday, I tried to just ignore them...but she wasn't having it. In D's defense, he was actually behaving himself and trying to stay away. She was the one pushing my buttons. He also did listen to my side and agreed with me on some points. Yes I wish I could have just kept walking away but sooner or later I had to stick up for myself.
Instead of going home, sulking and hoping for a phone call, I ran home, changed my clothes and headed out to the Moonlight Hash that my buddy BWANA was haring that evening. It was a hot, sticky, miserable run. I think I was still pretty dehydrated from the weekend, I hadn't ate much all day...and well the heat was bad for all of us.
Thankful for my anal-retentive attention to details I remember BWANA telling me weeks ago it was going to end at Dakota Blue...once I hit Glennwood I made a beeline towards Grant Park. I picked up EZ-Cheecks along the way. It is always good to see her, we discussed boys both past, present and future.
I ordered a bean burrito (I'm back on the diet) and skipped the beer. I ran a super short circle and was home (after taking the scenic route back to the car, thanks ButtBob for the tour) by 10. I took a shower, sat for bit in front of the TV, and thought about what a good night sleep I was going to have. Once again I was wrong. I tossed and turned most of the night. Well there is always tonight. There will be no running for me when I get home, if I do anything it will be at the gym.
I'm thinking a trip to the store might be a better use of the evening...Martha's cupboards are bare.
Monday, August 6, 2007
Shoot the 'Hooch
okay it was really the Cartecay River in Ellijay...just as fun none the less.
I ran into a small road block on my way to Ellijay on Friday. I took my car to the shop on Thursday to have my brakes replaced and tires rotated. I dropped the car off at 7:15 am and rode my bike the 3 miles to the office. Finally around 4:30 I called...they were just now having a look at the car and didn't think it would be ready by 6 but were going to try...damn! By the time I knew for sure, everyone had left the office and I didn't have a ride home. So I hopped on the bike and rode the 8 miles home...you would have thought I had to ride across the entire city. It was hot and I too beat by the time I got home to make it to my Thursday night run in Cabbagetown (which meant getting back on the bike).
I stayed in and finished packing for my trip. I was planning on being at Georgia's house at 1 so we would miss Friday night rush hour. I didn't get back from picking up the car until 12:40...I threw everything in, figured out the new bike rack and took off towards Clarkston only about 45 minutes behind schedule.
We made it up to MOEs in good time, some how avoiding all but the tiniest amount of gird lock on the connector.
I knew this was going to be a tough weekend, my ex was going to show up with his new 'girlfriend'. I went up there will all good intentions of just trying to avoid them and enjoy the weekend with my friends. Unfortunately, that is not how things worked out. There were a couple of confrontations, some name calling, alcohol abuse, silliness and stupidness a pretty full weekend. Saturday was better but still not great. The river was really low and it took us over 4 hours to float down. There was no drama on the river, I got to have a relaxing time (when I wasn't stuck or bruising my backside) with my friends and I kept a nice buzz going for the afternoon. I have to give the weekend a 6 out of 10. Which is sad because I was really looking forward to relaxing and having a good time. Lord knows I need it.
I'm going to have to think long and hard about attending the next event.
I left around noon on Sunday...feeling like death. The original plan was to head to Hog Mountain, that wasn't going to happen. I made it home in pretty good time and spent the rest of the evening on the couch.
I ran into a small road block on my way to Ellijay on Friday. I took my car to the shop on Thursday to have my brakes replaced and tires rotated. I dropped the car off at 7:15 am and rode my bike the 3 miles to the office. Finally around 4:30 I called...they were just now having a look at the car and didn't think it would be ready by 6 but were going to try...damn! By the time I knew for sure, everyone had left the office and I didn't have a ride home. So I hopped on the bike and rode the 8 miles home...you would have thought I had to ride across the entire city. It was hot and I too beat by the time I got home to make it to my Thursday night run in Cabbagetown (which meant getting back on the bike).
I stayed in and finished packing for my trip. I was planning on being at Georgia's house at 1 so we would miss Friday night rush hour. I didn't get back from picking up the car until 12:40...I threw everything in, figured out the new bike rack and took off towards Clarkston only about 45 minutes behind schedule.
We made it up to MOEs in good time, some how avoiding all but the tiniest amount of gird lock on the connector.
I knew this was going to be a tough weekend, my ex was going to show up with his new 'girlfriend'. I went up there will all good intentions of just trying to avoid them and enjoy the weekend with my friends. Unfortunately, that is not how things worked out. There were a couple of confrontations, some name calling, alcohol abuse, silliness and stupidness a pretty full weekend. Saturday was better but still not great. The river was really low and it took us over 4 hours to float down. There was no drama on the river, I got to have a relaxing time (when I wasn't stuck or bruising my backside) with my friends and I kept a nice buzz going for the afternoon. I have to give the weekend a 6 out of 10. Which is sad because I was really looking forward to relaxing and having a good time. Lord knows I need it.
I'm going to have to think long and hard about attending the next event.
I left around noon on Sunday...feeling like death. The original plan was to head to Hog Mountain, that wasn't going to happen. I made it home in pretty good time and spent the rest of the evening on the couch.
Thursday, August 2, 2007
Bad Monkey - Mystery Solved
A few weeks ago I tried a new beer, Victory Golden Monkey. An interesting and yummy Belgium-type ale . I had three or four one night and had to almost be carried out of the bar. Now 4 beers isn't a lot for me...I can drink that much and still run a hash. What I didn't realize until last night was that Golden Monkey is a high-gravity beer!! 9.5% - so it was more like I had 8 beers.
Thank god, I thought I was going soft.
Last Night - Part 2
First I would just like to say if you don't like what you read here...stop reading my blog! Simple.
Background
As most of you may know I've been a little lost lately. A 2+ year relationship had ended and I never felt I was really appreciated or given a chance to make things work. No matter how hard you want a relationship to work out, you just can't do it alone.
I've had a few dates with guys I've met. Nice guys, treat me pretty well but no one I can see a future with, backgrounds, values, etc are just too different or just no 'click'.
I had another date last night and it went well.
Jim
About six weeks ago I signed up on eHarmony, thought why not? Everyone in the commercials seem happy (I'm a sucker for good marketing). After 70 or so rejections (both active and passive) I was beginning to think this wasn't going to work either.
I started communication with a guy named James. What caught my eye? He described himself as spontaneous, loyal, outgoing & genuine all good qualities in my option. His leisure time included playing tennis, biking & running, these could be activities we share. Lastly, what was he looking for? Someone who smiles a lot, is loyal and dependable. Well that's me! I'm glad to see someone (unlike my past relationship) can appreciate the value in those qualities.
We emailed a few times, we talked on the phone...it was all going well. He seemed very easy to talk to, very outgoing, I found out he was a engineer and he thought what I did was really cool (smart is sexy)...I was encouraged.
He called me on Sunday, sometime between the run in the morning and the hash in the afternoon. He was impressed that I was a little drunk and getting ready for my second run of the day. He didn't want to keep me, said he would call a little later and we could plan to meet up later in the week.
So...last night.
We were to meet at the Flatiron at 7:45, he called, running a little late because of traffic...I started to worry. In the end he was only about 5 minutes late, no big deal. We hit it off immediately. He was just as outgoing and easy-going in person. We each had a Hoegarden and decided to head down the street for some dinner. I suggested the Glenwood, we sat on the patio, ordered some food and just talked about sports, school, home, family, the only time the conversation got a little strained was when the subject of past relationships surfaced. He was married once, I just recently escaped a long term relationship...a few questions were asked. He asked why it didn't work, I told him my side, he said sounded like the ex was very selfish and narcissistic...lol I couldn't disagree. I told him things where still a little strained since the ex and I still had to see each other but we/I was trying now to co-exist.
Finally about 10 it was time to go. He still had some studying to do and is leaving for Dayton to attend his high school reunion. He walked me to my car, gave me a nice hug and asked if he could call me when he gets back on Sunday!! I said yes...
In the end, it does seem like we have similar values/backgrounds, we are both very social, active and smart. I don't want to get ahead of myself but I have a good feeling. Even if a romantic relationship doesn't develop, this is the kind of person I would like to call a friend.
I will keep you all posted.
Background
As most of you may know I've been a little lost lately. A 2+ year relationship had ended and I never felt I was really appreciated or given a chance to make things work. No matter how hard you want a relationship to work out, you just can't do it alone.
I've had a few dates with guys I've met. Nice guys, treat me pretty well but no one I can see a future with, backgrounds, values, etc are just too different or just no 'click'.
I had another date last night and it went well.
Jim
About six weeks ago I signed up on eHarmony, thought why not? Everyone in the commercials seem happy (I'm a sucker for good marketing). After 70 or so rejections (both active and passive) I was beginning to think this wasn't going to work either.
I started communication with a guy named James. What caught my eye? He described himself as spontaneous, loyal, outgoing & genuine all good qualities in my option. His leisure time included playing tennis, biking & running, these could be activities we share. Lastly, what was he looking for? Someone who smiles a lot, is loyal and dependable. Well that's me! I'm glad to see someone (unlike my past relationship) can appreciate the value in those qualities.
We emailed a few times, we talked on the phone...it was all going well. He seemed very easy to talk to, very outgoing, I found out he was a engineer and he thought what I did was really cool (smart is sexy)...I was encouraged.
He called me on Sunday, sometime between the run in the morning and the hash in the afternoon. He was impressed that I was a little drunk and getting ready for my second run of the day. He didn't want to keep me, said he would call a little later and we could plan to meet up later in the week.
So...last night.
We were to meet at the Flatiron at 7:45, he called, running a little late because of traffic...I started to worry. In the end he was only about 5 minutes late, no big deal. We hit it off immediately. He was just as outgoing and easy-going in person. We each had a Hoegarden and decided to head down the street for some dinner. I suggested the Glenwood, we sat on the patio, ordered some food and just talked about sports, school, home, family, the only time the conversation got a little strained was when the subject of past relationships surfaced. He was married once, I just recently escaped a long term relationship...a few questions were asked. He asked why it didn't work, I told him my side, he said sounded like the ex was very selfish and narcissistic...lol I couldn't disagree. I told him things where still a little strained since the ex and I still had to see each other but we/I was trying now to co-exist.
Finally about 10 it was time to go. He still had some studying to do and is leaving for Dayton to attend his high school reunion. He walked me to my car, gave me a nice hug and asked if he could call me when he gets back on Sunday!! I said yes...
In the end, it does seem like we have similar values/backgrounds, we are both very social, active and smart. I don't want to get ahead of myself but I have a good feeling. Even if a romantic relationship doesn't develop, this is the kind of person I would like to call a friend.
I will keep you all posted.
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
New Things
Things I've tried since gaining my freedom:
1) Rock Wall Climbing
2) Olives
3) Calamari
4) Peas
5) Pilates (Google doesn't recognized this as a word)
6) Camping alone
7) Dark Side
With mostly positive results. What should I try next? Any other suggestions?
Golf lessons
A non-urban Wheelhopper
Kickball
Scallops
1) Rock Wall Climbing
2) Olives
3) Calamari
4) Peas
5) Pilates (Google doesn't recognized this as a word)
6) Camping alone
7) Dark Side
With mostly positive results. What should I try next? Any other suggestions?
Golf lessons
A non-urban Wheelhopper
Kickball
Scallops
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Classy!
I heard a story the other night that just made me giggle. I can't go into specifics but it entails two hashers, under a table a Famous, making out...Classy!
That takes me back. I use to hang out at Famous Pub when I was in grad school (though not under the tables). A cavernous bar with lots of TVs, pool tables and Emory students, I always had fun there (though again never under the tables). I was last there over a year ago, after a hash...nothing has changed.
Martha's getting her groove back
That takes me back. I use to hang out at Famous Pub when I was in grad school (though not under the tables). A cavernous bar with lots of TVs, pool tables and Emory students, I always had fun there (though again never under the tables). I was last there over a year ago, after a hash...nothing has changed.
Martha's getting her groove back
I had a cute and much younger man hit on me the other night. I'm not interested but it was kind of nice.
I don't want to jinx anything but I do have a date tomorrow night and I'm looking forward to meeting him. I met him on-line, he owns a house in ViHi, works as an engineer with KC, studying for his MBA, he likes smart girls and is from the Midwest. He's even heard of the hash and thinks it sounds like fun ('What's not to like, running and drinking')! I am hoping to keep him away from there for a bit...but you never know.
I like boys that grew up in the Midwest but had the smarts to leave there. People may disagree but Midwesterners are some of the nicest, most down to earth folks you will ever meet.
We've spoke on the phone a few times, he seems to have a great sense of humor and is easy to talk to, we will be heading to an old favorite of mine, The Flatiron.
What he is looking for in a person:
Someone that smiles a lot is loyal and dependable.
I think I can do that :) Wish me luck.
Maxed Out
Since it was Monday night and there is nothing on TV I took the opportunity to do some spring cleaning in the extra bedroom. I watched the movie Maxed Out on the computer while tossing all the stuff I've accumulated over the past few years (is that ironic?).
Interesting movie but it didn't really tell me anything I didn't already know. Americans spend more money than they make every year. Some of the stories were heart-breaking, several cases of suicide after becoming overwhelmed with credit card debt, the national guard solider that had been on active duty for 23 months (making far less than his civilian job), and the low-income, fiscally unsophisticated victims of predatory lending.
I have generally admire Suzy Orme, much of her advice is again basic and a lot of common sense but I saw no real harm in what she had to say. She is always telling you how important your FICO score is when planning your financial future. I found out while watching the movie that she has a deal with the company that markets FICO scores...
Monday, July 30, 2007
The Penis has No Filter
Wise words from a very nice man...I have nothing more to say on the subject.
I'm starting to notice people treating me differently now that I'm single. People that I've never spoke with before are now going out of their way to talk to me. I'm not really sure why but I'm not complaining either.
Yesterday was a weird day...my mood was ALL OVER THE PLACE.
It started out well enough, a short drive to Grant Park for a run with friends. Neither Paulie or I where up for the 6+ mile trail BWANA laid out for us, so we did a shorter & slower 5 mile trek to Little 5 Points and back. We watch the final part of the Tour de France, commented on skinny, little biker guys, ate some yummy bagels and drank a few beers.
I had to make a quick pit stop back at the house so as to avoid a wardrobe malfunction on the Black Sheep trail that afternoon. Upon my arrival I saw the sight I was hoping to avoid. I busied myself by handing out t-shirts and had another beer.
Unfortunately, my buzz started to wear off just as the trail started going south. I had to go through a long, dark tunnel, nearly had a panic attack and exited the tunnel sobbing like a little girl. Circle wasn't much better, people thought I was pissy because of trail but that was not the case. Thanks DC for literally giving me a shoulder to cry on. Thankfully, the on-after was drama free...I need to keep reminding myself I am surrounded by some really wonderful friends!!
I'm starting to notice people treating me differently now that I'm single. People that I've never spoke with before are now going out of their way to talk to me. I'm not really sure why but I'm not complaining either.
Yesterday was a weird day...my mood was ALL OVER THE PLACE.
It started out well enough, a short drive to Grant Park for a run with friends. Neither Paulie or I where up for the 6+ mile trail BWANA laid out for us, so we did a shorter & slower 5 mile trek to Little 5 Points and back. We watch the final part of the Tour de France, commented on skinny, little biker guys, ate some yummy bagels and drank a few beers.
I had to make a quick pit stop back at the house so as to avoid a wardrobe malfunction on the Black Sheep trail that afternoon. Upon my arrival I saw the sight I was hoping to avoid. I busied myself by handing out t-shirts and had another beer.
Unfortunately, my buzz started to wear off just as the trail started going south. I had to go through a long, dark tunnel, nearly had a panic attack and exited the tunnel sobbing like a little girl. Circle wasn't much better, people thought I was pissy because of trail but that was not the case. Thanks DC for literally giving me a shoulder to cry on. Thankfully, the on-after was drama free...I need to keep reminding myself I am surrounded by some really wonderful friends!!
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Dusty!
I hate dust and dust seems to be taking over my house. The question what can I do about it? I have two dogs, so the tumbleweed-like balls of dog hair floating across the living room are here to stay. But the DUST...it just never goes away. I have invested in air cleaners, vacuums and assorted swiffer-type contraptions to control the dust and nothing is working.
I have a new plan...
Time Out for Some Time Off
If I can't keep the dust out of my house then maybe it is time for me to get rid of some of the things the dust settles on.
I would love to grab a big box, take the day off and just start chucking things into it, starting with
1) my cds, I haven't listened to one of these since I signed up with Sirius. Most are old and dusty, anyone need a Spice Girls cd to finish off their collection?
2) my closet, I'm pretty good about this. I go through my wardrobe every few months. The problem right now is the pile from the last purge is still sitting in my house.
3) my books, I have LOTS of books, I love books, this will be a tough one. I need to be cold and calculating on this one.
4) my photos, I'm not sure if I need to get rid of these just find a better way to organize them.
I have a new plan...
Time Out for Some Time Off
If I can't keep the dust out of my house then maybe it is time for me to get rid of some of the things the dust settles on.
I would love to grab a big box, take the day off and just start chucking things into it, starting with
1) my cds, I haven't listened to one of these since I signed up with Sirius. Most are old and dusty, anyone need a Spice Girls cd to finish off their collection?
2) my closet, I'm pretty good about this. I go through my wardrobe every few months. The problem right now is the pile from the last purge is still sitting in my house.
3) my books, I have LOTS of books, I love books, this will be a tough one. I need to be cold and calculating on this one.
4) my photos, I'm not sure if I need to get rid of these just find a better way to organize them.
Another ending or a new beginning
It is/was time to end things with Chris. He is a very sweet guy and has always been good to me. However, I want certain things out of life and I don't think he is the one that can give that to me. We are so very different, values, lifestyles, goals, etc. that I just don't see how it could work. There has been no official breakup, there was no official relationship. I will talk to him soon but for now I need a little time alone.
Monday, July 16, 2007
Men, can't live with them...
I know people say they are simple creatures, feed them and f*ck them and they are happy.
So why do they insist on 'helping out'??? They want to do the 'manly' chores around the house but they never do them. So I'm stuck either 1) fixing it myself and not letting him 'be a man' or 2) waiting for him to fix it...whenever that might be.
Right now the grass in my yard is almost knee deep and my mower is still out back with a broken blade.
I'm off for a run...I need it!
So why do they insist on 'helping out'??? They want to do the 'manly' chores around the house but they never do them. So I'm stuck either 1) fixing it myself and not letting him 'be a man' or 2) waiting for him to fix it...whenever that might be.
Right now the grass in my yard is almost knee deep and my mower is still out back with a broken blade.
I'm off for a run...I need it!
Saturday, July 7, 2007
All Chicks, No DIcks
And one ugly something in between:
The day started off as any normal hash would, I picked up Tasty Pie and we headed up to the wilds of Cobb County. On the drive there I received phone calls from three separate hashers:
Hasher #1 - I'm lost, I don't see a Kroger where the directions say it should be
Hasher #2 - I'm running late, as in I'm still at home in my PJs, where is the end
Hasher #3 - We are at the wrong Kroger, we are on our way
Why I was the one being contacted is beyond me, I wasn't setting trail, I wasn't involved in any of the arrangements, I guess I'm just expected to know everything. Though I do seem to be a clearing house of information most of the time.
After a few phone calls to/from lost/misplace/missing hashers and a visit from L&F (please see picture above), the pack of 30 or so women was off. It was a scenic trail, not to long, but boy I couldn't wait to get to that pool ending for some food, beer and most importantly gossip.
Most of the day was spent chatting, floating in the pool and drinking a bevy or two. Many started to leave to attend the PineLake Hash 1050, why leave, there is beer here, we already ran and we have a pool. We where down to only the most serious of Chicks.
We figured at this point we would make a beer run, grab some food and retrieve the last of the cars from the start. Primer, 4 Inch, Pumpt'kin and myself headed back. Pumpt'kin was going to head home and the remaining three of us headed into Kroger to stock up on much needed provisions. Upon our return to the parking lot, Pumpt'kin was still sitting in her car and declared she was too drunk to drive home.
Primer, 4 Inch, Tasty Pie, Skin Flute, Pumpt'kin and myself hung out well past the return on our hosts. At around 7:30 most of us started to head back to town. I got home, made some rice and fell asleep. Rumor has it two of these hard core chicks participated in a pub crawl until about midnight, you go girls!
Thanks to our hosts/hares for such a great No Dick day.
The day started off as any normal hash would, I picked up Tasty Pie and we headed up to the wilds of Cobb County. On the drive there I received phone calls from three separate hashers:
Hasher #1 - I'm lost, I don't see a Kroger where the directions say it should be
Hasher #2 - I'm running late, as in I'm still at home in my PJs, where is the end
Hasher #3 - We are at the wrong Kroger, we are on our way
Why I was the one being contacted is beyond me, I wasn't setting trail, I wasn't involved in any of the arrangements, I guess I'm just expected to know everything. Though I do seem to be a clearing house of information most of the time.
After a few phone calls to/from lost/misplace/missing hashers and a visit from L&F (please see picture above), the pack of 30 or so women was off. It was a scenic trail, not to long, but boy I couldn't wait to get to that pool ending for some food, beer and most importantly gossip.
Most of the day was spent chatting, floating in the pool and drinking a bevy or two. Many started to leave to attend the PineLake Hash 1050, why leave, there is beer here, we already ran and we have a pool. We where down to only the most serious of Chicks.
We figured at this point we would make a beer run, grab some food and retrieve the last of the cars from the start. Primer, 4 Inch, Pumpt'kin and myself headed back. Pumpt'kin was going to head home and the remaining three of us headed into Kroger to stock up on much needed provisions. Upon our return to the parking lot, Pumpt'kin was still sitting in her car and declared she was too drunk to drive home.
Primer, 4 Inch, Tasty Pie, Skin Flute, Pumpt'kin and myself hung out well past the return on our hosts. At around 7:30 most of us started to head back to town. I got home, made some rice and fell asleep. Rumor has it two of these hard core chicks participated in a pub crawl until about midnight, you go girls!
Thanks to our hosts/hares for such a great No Dick day.
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